How Can I Get Femmes to Like Me?

Just have to add.Butch gays go out with feminine gays.A femenine gay NEVER dates a feminine gay.What planet are you on?

prettyrussian wrote:

Just have to add.Butch gays go out with feminine gays.A femenine gay NEVER dates a feminine gay.What planet are you on?

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You are obviously talking about guys. And it is not even true of men and it certainly is not true for lesbians. BTW I know because I live in the gayest place on Planet Earth.

No I didn't realize you were being tongue in check, I thought you were really asking.

What I'm going to say is meant totally seriously Roxxxx....if you are really wanting to meet more femmes, and no insult intended...one woman to another, so to speak....

You might try showing your gentler side once in a while. Regardless of my sexual orientation, I just wouldn't be attracted to someone as argumentative as you are all of the time.

You don't have to be full blown all out aggressive every second....why not try a softer, more gentile approach?

Roxxxanne wrote:

So nobody caught on that this thread was tongue in chhek. Gosh< I wish I could be funny like that other poster I am accused of being...

So last night I went to The Cafe, a lesbian and mixed bar in The Castro, danced with and met some really hot women, one of whom I left with, we went to Harvey's for nachos. I would have much prefered a tortilla at Roxxxxanne's but oh well...maybe next time.

So you cruise gay bars for casual sex? Is this a frequent pastime for you there, oh legendlike one?

snood wrote:

Roxxxanne wrote:

So nobody caught on that this thread was tongue in chhek. Gosh< I wish I could be funny like that other poster I am accused of being...

So last night I went to The Cafe, a lesbian and mixed bar in The Castro, danced with and met some really hot women, one of whom I left with, we went to Harvey's for nachos. I would have much prefered a tortilla at Roxxxxanne's but oh well...maybe next time.

So you cruise gay bars for casual sex? Is this a frequent pastime for you there, oh legendlike one?

I am shocked! Shocked to find that single people, straight and gay, go to bars looking to meet people! What **** planet are you living on, Snood?

Earth. And you?

Hey, whatever floats yer boat, Roxxxanne- or whoever the flip you are. I don't want to shock you, but the majority of eligible-aged adults ain't cruisin' the bars to find their significant others, except in the movies - they're cruisin 'em for one-night stands. And yes, I think casual sex is dangerous and stupid.

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Earth. And you?

Hey, whatever floats yer boat, Roxxxanne- or whoever the flip you are. I don't want to shock you, but the majority of eligible-aged adults ain't cruisin' the bars to find their significant others, except in the movies - they're cruisin 'em for one-night stands. And yes, I think casual sex is dangerous and stupid.

Snood, or whoever the flip you are. Again, I have to wonder what planet you are on to t hink you know anything about the San Francisco women's scene. It is a lot different than your straight bar scene, the absence of men and testosterone is the big factor. Women go to socialize, meet new people and, yes, if the chemistry is right sometimes sex is involved, which between women is relatively safe. I don't know of many occurrences of STDs being transmitted with a strap on. Like most guys, you only look at things from your limited perspective.

And I have not posted here because I have a real life and a very busy one.

I know Roxxx that before I write this that you already don't agree with my opinion...... but......

From what I've seen and I've seen it a lot...

It's the butches that go for the lipsticks.

I've scarcely seen butches date butches or lipsticks date lipsticks.
Maybe since (I gather) youre a lipstick that likes lipsticks, other lipsticks simply don't realise you'd be interested in them.

In my opinion you'd need to do the chasing at least initially to show lipsticks you're interested.

Wow. I said lipstick a lot. haha.

Roxxxanne,are you bisexual?