flshd, I will jump in here and give you good advice; do your best to land this guy. Lure him, play a little hard to get when necessary but give him anything he asks for that you can. If you haven't already and my guess is you probably have even if you won't admit it here. Yes, I believe you already have given him everything. Well, just keep on with it because in spite of many things you hear contrary, the most important thing for a young beautiful woman such as yourself (Did I say young? You are already 27, 30 is around the corner!) is to land a brute with a respectable income so he can take care of you for the rest of your life. That is, or should be, the only point a woman gets married. Being married is much more preferable than not being married because it eliminates all the nasty things people will think and say about you if you never get married. You have probably said these things about women you already know that haven't landed a brute. Women in their thirties who are still single, never been married are: "funny" and I am being kind when I use that term. I think you know what I mean. Get married girl, worry about "love" later on down the pike. You are getting up there in years.
Well now I know you are very young but there is a possibility that if you have had the decency to graduate from a good university and are objective in your judgments of important things perhaps you can help me here.
I am a romantic who is pushing 70 and I am beginning to see death approaching. I don't want to die alone in this house with my dog; even though the place is nice and cozy and much preferable to one of those damn assisted care centers or heaven forbid a nursing home. Yes I am nearly 70 and I still "get it on" with various women several times a month but non of these women really wish to be married. I need a woman that is partial to, has a penchant for the avant-garde. Preferably a sweetie in her fifties (age is no obstacle) that was anti-war, decadent in the sixties but is healthy today, has all of her teeth and is clean with smooth tannish skin and not obese. Well, as you might guess such a woman is hard enough for me to find in the first place but they are around. The major problem is money. I have a reasonable income but I dare not risk being poor; I am not rich but my income is such that I live pretty high on the hog. I do anything I like and I never need to worry about paying bills. If I bring avant-garde aboard she will need to have her own resources, just like I do. Over the years I have had some babes bunk here for short terms with little more than a suitcase but avant-garde will be here for the duration. I am into music. I would like her to be into some form of art as well. She needs to be decent enough to have graduated from a good university like you. I would like her to have been involved in education or law. An avant-garde woman in either profession would be ideal.
This is the first time I am attempting to do something like this. Since I am a fine gentlemen it worries me because I am used to providing everything for short term women but this would be long term and I simply would not want to spend all the money and risk becoming poor.
How do you think I should approach avant-garde about this. Hitting it off from the start is no problem because I am thoroughly experienced in charming women. Discussing money with a woman is another matter. I have not done that with a woman since my wife left me 18 years ago.
What do you think flshd? (I think I'm a pretty good catch myself.)