I'm not snubbing your poll, I just have never really been into the sex/music combo thang-- and if I did have a sex song, it would be something by the Smashing Pumpkins that no one here has heard anyway, like maybe "Saturnine," but what good is that when no one even knows the song?
...so then you have the one option there with the no music, but it has the *sweat*-ing and all, and I'm just not feelin' that option either...Sorry!
(I'm prolly closest to the Sade option, actually...

I
like Sade...and vanilla sex, too, I suppose. <sniffle>)