@ebrown p,
Just to summarize... I am not saying that Mexico is a perfect paradise with no crime.
All I am saying is that the idea that Mexico is a uncivilized, corrupt den of crimes with no laws or law enforcement is nothing but paranoid fantasy.
The truth is in the middle.
There are really dangerous countries to visit that far outweigh the crime and corruption of Mexico. I spent time in Guatemala-- I was careful when I was there... I didn't travel after dark, and I made sure I knew where I was going and didn't flash my impressive jewelry. Guatemala is, by any rational measure, far more dangerous than Mexico... the risks of me being a victim of crime was still fairly low and the experience far exceeded the risk.
The fact is the risk that an individual American tourist in Mexico will be a victim of violent crime is very low-- as I implied before, it is far lower than your risk of dying in a car crash this year.
So, all I am saying is not to exaggerate.
Mexico is not the United States. Anyone will tell you this. But there are millions of American tourists who visit Mexico every year without incident, and there are millions of middle-class families who live decent lives year round in Mexico; they go to school, have businesses, get married, buy ice cream, visit museums without being victims of crime.
It is the completely unrealistic exaggerated dire picture of Mexico that I am trying (as someone who has personal experience with the country) to correct.