Is it Normal to Feel Ruttish, Every Moment of the Day?

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J_B wrote:

How's your insomnia been, PS?

Did you ever go back and read the thread?

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Yeah, I think you were up for something like 44 hours straight, right? Everything ok now?

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It was 40. And in the thread, I said things were resolved.

Thank you. Smile

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Just wondering if there was a link between insomnia and feeling ruttish.

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Momma Angel wrote:

There is a certain male poster on A2K that I have this crush on. It's silly because I have had very, very little interaction with this person and some was cordial and some was not. There would never be anything but a little flirtation and this little heart skips a beat thing when I see his avatar type of thing going on.[/color]

It's me, isn't it.....?

I'm so complimented by this, butI'm sorry, but it could never work out....I have other commitments........just think of me fondly when you cuddle up to your pillow, and whisper.......chaiiiiii......

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That's a good question, J_B.

I don't know about everyone else, especially the women, but I like PoetSeductress. I think she brings about a refreshing look at things. She's serious and yet makes you smile about it.

Yeah, she flirts. But, from some of the posts I've seen back from the guys, she makes them smile and I don't see anything wrong with that.

So, PS, I don't see a thing wrong with you be ruttish as much as you want girl. I can't say you're hurting anybody by it at all. Shoot, I'll admit it. I wish I had your gift! Laughing

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Let's play "WHO IS MOMMA ANGEL RUTTISH FOR?"

ok, I'll start......is it someone here on A2K?

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Momma Angel wrote:

...I don't think there is anything wrong with harmless flirtation as long as all parties involved understand that is just what it is.

Well, MA, there are different levels of flirtation, and none of them are harmful! :wink: Unless one or both of the parties are married, that is. Then that might pose a problem. Anyway...

Types of flirting:

1) casual (no intentions, just fun)
2) possible interest (testing the waters)
3) serious (both have received definite signals of interest, privately or publically)

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Chai Tea,

Half the time I don't know what the heck to think about you. You can get me so angry I want to catfight you in the alley. Other times, your heart comes out and I think you are giving the world a hug.

But I gotta be honest with you here. I don't even know if you are a male or a female for sure!!!!!! ROFL!

http://web4.ehost-services.com/el2ton1/laughing1.gif

When you put up a female avatar I see you as female and when you put up a male one, I see you as male!

I am laughing so hard tears are coming down my face!

But no, it's not you. I'm sorry.

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BTW MA, it's perfectly normal to have fantasy people.

I do, and it's very nice.....it's like having someone you can keep all to yourself....no one else's business.

sorry for playfully teasing....

I wouldn't care to tell anyone who in my life I am secretly having a torrid affair with....especially not the person I'm mentally having it with....

oh lord....that would be awful....

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PoetSeductress,

I agree. So, if you are married and you are harmlessly flirting with someone on A2K (Yes, Chai, on A2K), is that bad or wrong? If all parties involved know that it is just harmless flirting and nothing more, is that ok?

I haven't a clue as to what he really looks like, how old, anything. It's that avatar and his talk! It drives me wild! Embarrassed

I am going to have to take lessons from PS though. She's got this way about her that is irresistable and endearing. She's the kind of person that even if they had the worst singing voice in the world Simon Cowell would never say a bad them about them.

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J_B wrote:

Just wondering if there was a link between insomnia and feeling ruttish.

It was only for one night, for heaven's sake.

With all due respect, J_B, you didn't read my posts in their entirety. I told exactly what was causing it.

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Well, that's possible and it's also possible that I read it, forgot the details, and was too damn lazy to go back and look. I saw your thread here and saw that you seemed, errrrr, not sure what exactly. Thought you might be pulling more all-nighters.

Glad to hear all is well. Rut along! :wink:

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so sorry to announce this but the lord el, gus and meself are otherwise occupied, however, offers are always accepted.

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Momma Angel wrote:

PoetSeductress,

I agree. So, if you are married and you are harmlessly flirting with someone on A2K (Yes, Chai, on A2K), is that bad or wrong? If all parties involved know that it is just harmless flirting and nothing more, is that ok?

I haven't a clue as to what he really looks like, how old, anything. It's that avatar and his talk! It drives me wild!

I am going to have to take lessons from PS though. She's got this way about her that is irresistable and endearing. She's the kind of person that even if they had the worst singing voice in the world Simon Cowell would never say a bad them about them.

Oh, MA, if you were a man and not married, you would be in trouble! :wink:

Flirting is a natural part of life, at least for me. To me, natural, innocent flirting (No. 1) is just recognizing a person's desirability... sort of like appreciating a fine work of art. There are no "signals", just appreciation. With most people who are not uptight, this happens unconsciously, without any effort. It's just natural.

As for being married, well, I'm not going to hand down any judgments there, because none of us have the right to assume we know what is going on privately between the husband and wife, or what kind of agreements they have between each other. So No.'s 1, 2, or 3 are up to the married individual. The only time it could be harmful, that I know of, is if one or both of the parties fall in love, or if the spouse finds out and gets violent, or demands a divorce. Those are the risks.

I think it's very human of you to have a crush!!

(now you have me curious...)

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Well, hubby flirts too and it makes him smile and I have never worried about him straying just as he doesn't worry about me straying so I find no harm in it.

<<<<<If you lean really close, I might give you a hint about who it is. :wink: >>>>>

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just make sure your crush isn't married.

no flirting with married people.....

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Uh, no. He's not married. Well, that is if he's telling the truth, then he's not married. :wink:

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dyslexia wrote:

so sorry to announce this but the lord el, gus and meself are otherwise occupied, however, offers are always accepted.

How can you be occupied, dys, yet accept, simultaneously? Is this a game with which I'm not yet familiar?

ahh.... wait a minute... I think I have it. It's like when you walk into a business to apply for a job. You ask the receptionist if there are any openings. She says, "No, but we are taking applications." This could mean:

1) They have no intention of hiring, but would like to have your app. just in case things change in the future.

2) They're thinking of hiring, but not sure, and want your info on file.

3) They aren't hiring at the current location, but are looking to expanding their business. :wink: