@ehBeth,
Rummaging through my over the top hats..
Back on exploration.
I did this, more than a year (I could analyze myself but never mind).
Got either busy or bored, both, I think, and stepped back for another year. Then met husband, too young, sexy, terrific mind.
This was all after my recommended time by self, phoooh to me in my recommendations to others, at least as any palliative. I did have time to self in those months before hub.
And, of course, time after, time later.
I think of it all as a long song of life.
Sorry, I can't concentrate, I'm listening to Fabrizio de Andre and "Geordie" nice and loud.