Lash wrote:Are coon, honkey, spic, camel jockey, penguin, towelhead, redneck, et AL equally insulting?
Because your analogy would seem to require that.
Well, I dont know about "penguin", since I've heard little about the term being used in the course of the oppression or even persecution of nuns or museum wardens lately. And that I think is an important part of the point. Muslims, like pretty much most religious, ethnic or racial groups, have faced collective persecution and systematic discrimination. That makes labelling them with insultive epithets on the basis of race, religion or ethnicity as a par of course a problem.
Moreover, I seem to remember you do resent other people's use of the word "redneck", actually. So why would one
not resent your use of the word "towelhead"?
Lash wrote:Point #2-- I think "towelhead" is akin to the insult: Your Arab mother wears army boots.
It's cute. It's almost endearing.
Says you. I think it'd be up to the group insulted like that to decide just how "cute" and "endearing" the insult in question is. Seems as reasonable a criterion as any. If many people tell you that a certain term offends / hurts them, then that's it, in my book.
Ie, *I* can say, "oh but I only mean 'coon' in, you know, an endearing, cute way", but I dont think any black person would buy it. In fact, you wouldnt either, I'm guessing.
So, to just get right down to the point, where do
you draw the line between acceptable ("towelhead") and unacceptable ("coon"?). Cause at the moment it just sounds like you're using double standards - when it's about Muslims you can say the kind of things that you wouldnt say about, say, blacks - or that you dont even appreciate people saying about whites ("redneck"?).
If you say, well I would never say "nigger", but "towelhead" is OK, then its not the "PC" concept of avoiding words that insult or hurt people itself that you take issue with, but just where I draw the line in this case. Which begs the question where you draw it.
Lash wrote:Stop running around with a PC handbook in your back pocket.
I refuse to let some cabal in some penthouse misappropriate a perfectly cute insult.
Can anyone just tell you--"Hey, that's on the offensive list" and you just BUY it? Because, I'm going to make a new list, if you're such an easy mark.
Well, if you consider your crusade against PCers a valid excuse for knowingly using words that you already know do actually insult/offend/hurt large groups of people, for no reason other than that you consider it a
right, then go right ahead I guess (just dont whine if people complain about it <shrugs>).
Perhaps the guy posting earlier (forgot who) who said that it says more about the user than about the group described is right.