Clingy in 2 weeks... is that healthy?

And back to your post.

I gotta yell at you here: Smarten the f$ck up. You've been a big enough of a slu...er, I mean...you've dated enough guys to realize being this clingy is a sign of things to get much worse.

Is there really an answer you're looking for? You already know it.

Tell this guy you're all set.

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Sorry CrazyLady...didn't mean to tangeant out your thread.

You're gonna have fun tonight tho. Smile

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flushd wrote:

Slappy, have you asked this chick if she has anyone in mind yet?
If she's serious, she's probably already got a few chicks lined up in her head.
I hope to god you aren't dealing with a straight-girl-curious-who's-never-been-with-a-woman-without-a-guy-around or she's not just yanking your chain.
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She's straight, and has done threesome(s). Wow, I can't believe I don't know the details of what she's done. I'm supposed to hang out with her tonight, so I'll have to dig in. She doesn't have anyone in mind, because she asked me the other night if I found someone yet, and we were looking at escorts online last weekend....except I'm not going that route. But either way, she's a pretty sexual chick.

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Ok, so Toast has a website. Happens to be less than 2 miles from my house too.

Anyway, here's a sampling of all those "gorgeous" lesbians that go...ugh...I'd rather strap a pink dildo on my chest while wearing nothing else but angel wings and run in front of a moving bus.

http://i5.photobucket.com/albums/y176/robgoat/aab.jpg

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Slappy Doo Hoo wrote:

And back to your post.

I gotta yell at you here: Smarten the f$ck up. You've been a big enough of a slu...er, I mean...you've dated enough guys to realize being this clingy is a sign of things to get much worse.

Is there really an answer you're looking for? You already know it.

Tell this guy you're all set.

I have not been a slut.... I have gone on dates.... just cuz you go on dates doesn't mean you get any Crying or Very sad

I am frustrated.... Shocked

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flushd wrote:

Sorry CrazyLady...didn't mean to tangeant out your thread.

You're gonna have fun tonight tho.

Don't worry bout it lol

I will tell you guys about 2nite sometime this weekend.... ut oh

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CL, I was just joking about calling you a slut.

If you can't figure it out by now that I'm always sarcastic, this relationship is over.

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Slappy Doo Hoo wrote:

Ok, so Toast has a website. Happens to be less than 2 miles from my house too.

Anyway, here's a sampling of all those "gorgeous" lesbians that go...ugh...I'd rather strap a pink dildo on my chest while wearing nothing else but angel wings and run in front of a moving bus.

I can't see the pic at work... she said there are alot of bi girls there and it would be a good place to pick up a chick for a 3some...

But you couldn't get in anyways... unless you act like a gay guy the whole time.. which wouldn't be too hard for you

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Slappy Doo Hoo wrote:

CL, I was just joking about calling you a slut.

If you can't figure it out by now that I'm always sarcastic, this relationship is over.

I knew you were joking, just cuz I am blonde... doesn't mean I am a moron...

FINE!!! Rolling Eyes

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OUCH!

I couldn't get in with a slutty-dressed hot girl under my arm? Then again, I'm sure they would turn her down for not having the body of a 13 year old fat boy.

Hey, maybe there are hot bi girls there.

I'm off to the gym. Cross your toes you don't meet me later...haha.

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Do they usually say how they would never hurt you too??

Yes. Who expects to be hurt by a girlfriend/boyfriend? Why would it even occur to him that you needed to be told you wouldn't be hurt?

Warning bells are going off because this guy is trying to settle down in your space--and make it his space. Weren't you innoculated against Super-Possessive Lovers?

If he calls you more than once tonight, tell him, "Goodbye for good."

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Slappy Doo Hoo wrote:

OUCH!

I couldn't get in with a slutty-dressed hot girl under my arm? Then again, I'm sure they would turn her down for not having the body of a 13 year old fat boy.

Hey, maybe there are hot bi girls there.

I'm off to the gym. Cross your toes you don't meet me later...haha.

If I see a guy dressed in drag... I'll figure it is you.... and run... far away....

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Noddy24 wrote:

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Do they usually say how they would never hurt you too??

Yes. Who expects to be hurt by a girlfriend/boyfriend? Why would it even occur to him that you needed to be told you wouldn't be hurt?

Warning bells are going off because this guy is trying to settle down in your space--and make it his space. Weren't you innoculated against Super-Possessive Lovers?

If he calls you more than once tonight, tell him, "Goodbye for good."

He calls and texts and calls.... and wants all my time... but at the same time he includes our friends most of the time.... so that doesn't make sense of someone who is possesive... I think he honestly just likes me alot... and is very open with how he feels..

But at the same time he doesn't ask, he tells... do this, get in the car... go there, come here... blah blah... don't interupt me... look at me (and grabs me face and turns it to him (not mean).... that stuff scares me

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Whoa.

You can do better than this guy, Crazy.

He's sending off strong signals. Don't bury your gut feeling. You have a reason to be scared. That feeling is telling you something.

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This is the first one my friends and family like and they are all telling me not to screw this up.. they think I am overanaylzing (which I am good at)... but they don't see everything..

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Crazy, there's only one thing you need to remember:

It doesn't matter what anyone else thinks, but you. Not us here, not your family, not your friends.

Listen to what you feel about it. The answer is almost always in the question.

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I like the way you put that! Thanks Flushd!

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This is one of many sites available from Google: "Warning Signs Abusive Relationships"

http://ub-counseling.buffalo.edu/warnings.shtml

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No prob.

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Noddy24 wrote:

This is one of many sites available from Google: "Warning Signs Abusive Relationships"

http://ub-counseling.buffalo.edu/warnings.shtml

nope.. all seems well.. then again.. been two weeks... but I wouldn't say abusive... just a little um.. insecure and demanding... but he means no harm

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