he doesn't have the guts to ask me out?

" One who hesitates is lost"

aww thanks for the encouragement..
tomorrow ill get to see him... i have to give him these books he asked me to buy for him.. but tomorrow i wont ask him ... i dont know i dont think i should yet.
maybe i should wait- a week? or 2? or 3?
i dont know.. tomorow.. ill see how i feel..
and yeah..

i dont know

loveislikearose3 ,

hey, it's not funny anymore
do it, we spent so much time reading you and giving advices.
Where is our reward??

You do think too much about it. Do it, then you be happy or calm at least,
that is you may look for somebody else.

What's the worse that could happen? He could say no, point and laugh at you and tell all of his friends that you asked him out. On the other hand, he could say yes, become obsessed with you, stalk you and call you constantly.

What do you have to loose?

haha

umm.. yeah
i saw him yesterday..
but for now i think that i shouldnt hurry things up..
if he likes me .. maybe he'll ask me out instead ..
but if i do get with him soon..
ill post it here

You havn't got the guts to ask him out have you?

besides hes probably gay. All the good ones are...


can anyone see the irony here?

They're both kind of scared to ask each other out.

Funny: 2 shy people may never get together.

One of you better take the intiative, or you both end up with someone who is louder and pushier...

Thats an irony I've noted about these situations.

You rarely see 2 extremely shy people together.

Uh... You know what, I've been living proof of that crap! You'd better ask him out...

I've also waited too long, only to let the girl that I was interested in be swept away by someone else. Ask him out right now. Do it over the phone if it's easier.

Then again, I've also meen rejected a couple of times when I did muster up the nerve to ask. Who hasn't. It's called life...

And don't mind what I said earlier, I was just being an ass.

One central key to it is: you MUST DEVELOP A THICK SKIN.

Don't worry about rejection. Just keep asking and asking and asking and asking.

At first its hard and you get rejected a lot and its painful and it just seems stupid.

But after awhile, IF YOU KEEP BEING REALLY PERSISTENT AT IT, you get good at it, and start having a lot of success.

But its just like working out or playing music or learning a sport or something. You have to really work at it, and be willing to fail, and work thru it.

Ask him out. Even if he says no, you will learn from it. You will get closer to the guy you should really be with. You will be better and more ready when the next guy comes along...

thank you!
aw thank you so much for all the support..
though u help with humor u still help..
but right now im going to wait a LITTLE while..
and then yeah...

I'm going to stop smoking...............tomorrow. yes. I will. I really will.... You watch me, when i finish this pack.

Loveislikearose, you do it your way hunny bun and have fun doin it.

aww thanks .. you're the only one out of all the people that said "do it your way"
thanks again..

Sure, do it your way. But you are going to feel pretty bad if someone else asks him out before you get up the nerve to do it. It'll be one of those "what if's" that you'll wonder about for the rest of your life.

"I'm going to stop smoking...............tomorrow. yes. I will. I really will.... You watch me, when i finish this pack."


LOL

If you're too shy to say something to him then pique his interest some other way. Next time you walk past him give him a great big knowing wink or cheekily poke your tongue out or something completely UN-YOU, then just go on your way. At least you'll get more of a reaction than you're getting now.

If he doesn't respond well at least you won't feel mortified by his rejection - which is what you are scared of now.

Do it NOW. It doesn't have to be a big thing. It doesn't have to be a date. You don't even need a very good reason. You know him. He's asked you to do at least one favor for him. It's not like you're walking up to a stranger. The next time you see him, say "I'm kinda hungry, I didn't have time for lunch--you wanna go out for some pizza (coffee, bagel, dessert)." If he's interested and just shy, he may very well welcome the chance. You don't need to make a huge investment of yourself right off. You're just going out for pizza. See how it goes (and if he says no, maybe it's because he just ate himself and is feeling particularly fat and can't imagine that someone as neat as you would be interested in somebody as nerdy as him). There are all kinds of little first steps you can do to test the water, some that don't even involve food, that won't make you feel like you're making a fool of yourself. Take a little step, if a big one feels too scary.

DEFINITELY, DEFINITELY, DEFINITELY ASK HIM!

Did she ever ask?

Will we ever know?