ralpheb thank you for welcoming me and your reply on this.
As long as you are married to him, any debt that he acrues is the responsibilty of both of you, even if the card is in his name.
Darn! I knew that but I forgot! Thanks for the reminder...
A small piece of advice, if he says he needs money to pay off a card, loan whatever, YOU pay it off personally, don't give him the money.
Yeah, no doubt! He won't get another cent from me. That's part of the deal. I'll have access to all the bills to pay them so he won't need to ask me for anything to pay anything. Most of the bills will be paid online. Much simpler ya know?
I'm just hoping that you went into the marriage with your eyes open, and not blinded by the thought you had to get married because you were getting older.
Are you implying I'm OLD?????? LOLOLOL Kidding, only kidding. No, as a matter fact, I was perfectly happy being single finally
. I had pretty much realized that I could be happy with or without a man. Made no difference to me. Then I met my husband. And here we are today... OIY.
Happy new year!