Lash wrote:I don't think many, if any, people are "upset" over crossing--or other small, individual acts of faith.
I must ask what minority status you and I may experience that equates with being a non-Christian at Christmastime in America.
I am a non-Christian at all times, not just Christmas time. Does one have to be a Jew to be a discomforted minority during Christmas time?
Presumably there are religious holidays in Israel, where the majority of citizens are Jewish. There are minority populations of both Muslims and Christian living in Israel. Should Israel
tone down their Jewish celebrations for the sake of these minorities?
Unless there is deliberate action by the majority to use their celebration as a means to insult or intimidate the minorities, the minorities should just go about their business during times of majority celebrations and steer clear of the unseemly but all too prevalent claim to victim's status.
If the majority will not allow the minorities to engage in their own uniques celebrations, then there is a definite problem, but that certainly isn't the case in America.
I live in Dallas (actually Keller, but close enough), but I passionately root for the Carolina Panthers and despise the Dallas Cowboys. Should I be offended in any way because the majority of my neighbors celebrated the Cowboys' defeat of the Panthers today?
The majority has no obligation to minimize its celebrations simply because the minority cannot or (more importantly) will not join in them.
When Bing Crosby sang "Have yourself a merry little Christmas," he didn't actually mean: ""Unless you are a Jew, a Muslim or a Taoist, in which case have yourself a merry little time in Hell"
When a neighborhood chorale group parks themselves outside the home of a Jew and sings "Silent Night," they are not trying to evoke Crystal Night.
There are very few people who would turn a Jew or Muslim away from their Christmas party simply because they were not Christian, and very few who would reject an invitation to a Seder or a post Ramadan feast simply because they were Christian.
Celebrations in good faith, no matter what the faith, should be welcome by everyone.