John Creasy wrote:farmerman wrote:sort of like AA which states, in essence, "You poor schmuck, you are incapable of handling your own affairs and , without help from a secret friend , higher than you, you will fail in everything you do."
I always had a problem with those kind of organizations. Most religions fit within that realm.
Do you think that the overtly religous have problems with self esteem?
HMMM, somebody really nasty could start a thread with a name as offensive as this one
You clearly don't have the slightest clue about alcoholism or the programs that help alcoholics. Of course I wouldn't expect you to.
I looked into the "Rational Recovery" website and it seems like a scam to me. They tell you that you're all on your own and that meetings produce dependence yada yada. Then of course they want you to buy some tape that is supposed to cure you!!! I am my own worst enemy. I cannot depend on my own thinking to help me stay sober. I need a higher power. If that's a lack of self-esteem then so be it. It's better then being dead.
MA Cut it out. Talk like that is self-destructive.
Here's the whole quote from John Creasy a couple of pages back. I skimmed it and then went on to other things, but the thought that anyone can think of themselves as their own worst enemy haunted me. So I looked it up again.
He says he cannot depend on his own thinking to stay sober but he is convinced by that
same thinking that he is his own worst enemy. Odd that he can think the worst of himself but not the better. The person who got him into the mess is the same who can get him out and, unlike the I-am-no-one thinking, there will actually
be a person there to get out rather than a shell with an imaginary friend.
I am not saying anything is easy, but how does someone who thinks they are their own worst enemy ever decide that they have achieved recovery? Or does one who is nothing just stay dependent forever?
When do you get your self-esteem back? Never?
Joe(ever?)Nation