@Thomas,
I totally get that you are not a Christian......that is very obvious of course.
If you have read the Bible twice and still haven't seen the goodness of God then I cannot convince you. God's word is stronger than anything I could ever say. From Hebrews:
12For the word of God is living and active. Sharper than any double-edged sword, it penetrates even to dividing soul and spirit, joints and marrow; it judges the thoughts and attitudes of the heart. 13Nothing in all creation is hidden from God's sight. Everything is uncovered and laid bare before the eyes of him to whom we must give account.
God said to "Give thanks in all things" . I believe the reason He did that was to Again, take the focus off our own selves and accomplishments and put them on God. It is an antedote against pride, the worst sin of all, the one that caused Satan to fall from being the greatest angel to being a pitiful liar who is destined for the flames.
I don't agree with your conclusion, I find God's ways infinitely interesting and instructing.