That's one of the uncomfortable bits of wisdom I've lived with most all my life, Noddy. Good ol' Teddy Roosevelt had it right.
I have a lot of respect for all of you but (after a quick reading and with the admission that I've never suffered from thyroid problems, etc.) I was sad that "A Mountain of a Woman" was made to sound so negative.
Imagine a real mountain... strong, broad, and really
really there. That's not so bad, is it? The Vogue emphasis on real women looking like young boys with tits is wrong; attractive like an albino snake... but not natural.
(And, okay, while I write this and even though I think this particular Mountain of a Woman is quite attractive, I work out on a regular basis to keep from emulating her.