Re: The Love of My Life Got Another Girl Pregnant
Ok so I have this guy that I was with For two years we were going to work it out and get back together then last night I get a call he got another ex pregnant he doesn't want the kid because he was tellin me how badly he screwed up and wanted things to work out between us but now he cant because of this and I have no clue what to do Please help
A few items of note here:
1) The guy goes from you (an ex) to another (an ex) and got her pregnant. Seems like quite a bit of waffeling between exes to me. You honestly believe this can work?
2) The guy got someone pregnant, and is now leaving her to deal with the pregnancy alone. That means he's a) not responsible and b) a bit of a jackass.
3) It's quite possible that he wants to get back with you now since the other ex is probably demanding some responsibility of him. See #2 for why this is bad.
ya see its not that easy we were friends for a year then in a relationship for 2 years and we still sleep together and tell one another how we feel about the other he says he has no feelings for her and it was an accident and ive tried to let him go but he keeps comin back to me
It IS that easy. Time spent with a loser doesn't change the fact that he's a loser. Yes he may be a friend. I have a ton of friends, none of which I'd consider to be good as anything other than friends.
Also, how do you accidently get someone pregnant? It's an accident
because you now have proof that he was sleeping with other people and he doesn't want you to read too much into it.
This guy is an absolute loser who obviously cares more for sex than he does for you. He's irresponsible, and the worst reflection of "men" that I could possibly think of. If you insist on giving this clown another chance then, in all bluntness, you deserve what you get.