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Calling in sick??

 
 
Bella Dea
 
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Reply Tue 18 Oct, 2005 12:35 pm
nimh wrote:
Bella Dea wrote:
Exactly. People who care about their jobs are available in an emergency, even when sick. [..] There are exceptions to this, of course, being in the hospital or somewhere you cannot be reached but the key to all is planning. An employer will be less angry that you took a day off and were unreachable than calling in and being unreachable.

Oh fer chrissakes - when an employee is sick you leave him ALONE.

Emergency? Unless you're an aerospace engineer monitoring the space shuttle, is there really going to be something THAT life-threatening that your employer shouldnt be expected to manage about it without bothering his sick employees at home? "Key to all is planning", yeah, and that goes for the employer, too. Its his task to make sure he has enough staff on hand and has the roster scheduled smartly enough to be able to deal with replacing sick people - thats his job. Thats why they earn so much more than us mere employees too.

Any employer who calls his people when they're sick at home is failing at his job.


It must be nice to be so dispensable and work in a non-volatile industry where nothing unexpected happens. In my line of work, no in my industry, as well as that of my husband, we need to be reachable all the time. 24/7 My employer respects me enough to not call unless he absolutely must. I don't have a fill in. It's just me. So when I am sick, guess who does my job? No one. My "help" is in another city. And before you jump off the deep end with that one, it's not my employers fault. It again is the nature of my business. Viv was not asking for a personal day or vacation time. She was lying. Flat out lying. I think that's bad ethics and if you want to crucify me for that, go ahead. My parents raised me to be proud of my job and to do the best I could, even if I was shoveling manure or doing some other "no brainer" job. People who take advantage of the situation and the generosity of their boss are worthless to the company who employes them. There are plenty of people out there willing to work twice as hard as viv and less likely to choose Sea World over their job.

Viv, with your "I don't care, no one missed me" attitude you will fail in the business world. There is no room for 2nd place in the professional world. Unless you want to keep this "no brainer" job for the rest of your life, you might want to evaluate the perception of your importance to the work force. If you think you're not important and act unimportant, then guess what? You become unimportant and dispensable.
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nimh
 
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Reply Tue 18 Oct, 2005 01:34 pm
Bella Dea wrote:
Viv was not asking for a personal day or vacation time. She was lying. Flat out lying.

Yup, she was.

And you were flat out making things up about her "lying and calling in sick twice in 3 months", so hurried you were to be indignant about how "worthless" she was. Yep, those are some ethics you were righteously displaying, you must be real proud.

So easy to see the mote in the other's eye.

Difference is, she at least knows and acknowledges where she's not acting the way one should. You start shouting when its pointed out where you were in the wrong. Nice.
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Bella Dea
 
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Reply Tue 18 Oct, 2005 01:41 pm
I wasn't making any thing up. My opinion is my opinion. I think she is worthless to the company. I think all people like that are worthless to the company they work for when they act like she did; complete disregard for everything but her wants.

Not to mention, everything you pointed out was said before she came back to elaborate on her "sick story". Calling in during Katrina...she didn't say, I lived in an area affected by Katrina. I could have called in during Katrina but I'd have been calling in for no reason. Please. Defend her all you want. I can't wait until the day you have an employee who screws you over time and time again with their wonderful ethics.
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viv411
 
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Reply Tue 18 Oct, 2005 01:50 pm
Wow, what a heated argument has ensued. I don't take it favorably Bella when you call me worthless. I told you my job does not require me to be in every single day, I have other options. I'm rather thankful for that and enjoy my job tremendously. It is obvious you either don't like your job or are very bitter about something. It was just a post to ask for some advice, you have now besmirched my name in countless ways when you don't even know my situation. It's ok to have an opinion, but to be opinionated and hateful is quite another.
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viv411
 
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Reply Tue 18 Oct, 2005 01:51 pm
Oh, and thank yo again NIMH. Really I didn't mean for it to go this far.
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Synonymph
 
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Reply Tue 18 Oct, 2005 01:53 pm
Being self-employed has its benefits.

Bella, a strong work ethic is nice and I'm sure you're proud to have perfect attendance, but you work in advertising, don't you? Not exactly saving the world...
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Arella Mae
 
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Reply Tue 18 Oct, 2005 01:54 pm
I think you are being a bit rough on Bella Dea. Viv, you are the one that posted the thread. You are the one that essentially told us all that you were going to call into work and wanted us to give you some ideas for what would be lies.

If you had other options because you didn't have to be there everyday, why didn't you use one of those options?

In today's market where it is hard for some to find a job, there are those that will definitely take offense at anyone wanting to make excuses for not going to work when they are not sick.

There are too many people out there wanting any kind of work they can get just so they can survive. To them, isn't it possible they may see this as you taking advantage of a good situation and they would just like a job period?
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Bella Dea
 
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Reply Tue 18 Oct, 2005 01:55 pm
viv411 wrote:
Wow, what a heated argument has ensued. I don't take it favorably Bella when you call me worthless. .


I never called you personally worthless. Let me say this for the 4th time, to me at this job you would be worthless. Not worthless as a human being. I don't hate you. You "besmirched" your own name when you came on here acting like an 18 year old who has her first job. You made the fool of yourself by calling in sick when you weren't. You acted unethically when you lied to your boss for your own personal gain. How did I besmirch your name? By pointing out the truth? I am sorry you are so easily offended but you wanted opinions and you got them. I am and was not the only one who feels this way about your unethical behavior.

And for the record, I love my job. I love the industry I work in. I'd feel guilty lying to my boss for my own personal gain. I'd never do it, because I do value my job and would like to keep it.
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Bella Dea
 
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Reply Tue 18 Oct, 2005 01:56 pm
Synonymph wrote:

Bella, a strong work ethic is nice and I'm sure you're proud to have perfect attendance, but you work in advertising, don't you? Not exactly saving the world...


I never said I had perfect attendence. I said I didn't lie to get off work.

Boy, you all are sure to point out what you think I said when I never said it. Rolling Eyes

And thanks for pointing out the worthlessness of my job...I think I might cry now.
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Arella Mae
 
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Reply Tue 18 Oct, 2005 01:59 pm
I can't believe anyone would jump all over someone for just standing up for truth. Bella Dea is just pointing out that Viv was flat out telling us she was going to tell a lie to get out of work and she wanted others to give her ideas for that. If she is going to lie, that is one thing, but to ask others to help her do it is another.

No one is judging anyone personally here. There are flat out right and wrongs in this world and Bella Dea, and many others in this thread, have merely pointed out that Viv would be lying, which is wrong.

No need to attack anyone's profession or them personally.
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Chai
 
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Reply Tue 18 Oct, 2005 02:03 pm
Have I made it clear not to call me when I'm sick?


Oh - sorry, just a little tension breaker.

WWKS? (what would kicky say?)

Oh, I know...


Carry on...............
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Bella Dea
 
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Reply Tue 18 Oct, 2005 02:05 pm
Momma Angel wrote:
I can't believe anyone would jump all over someone for just standing up for truth..


Thanks MA. I don't mind them jumping all over me. As long as their accusations are valid. I can take it as well as I give it. It's just that a lot of people can't take it and get pissed when I call them out.
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Bella Dea
 
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Reply Tue 18 Oct, 2005 02:06 pm
Chai Tea wrote:
Have I made it clear not to call me when I'm sick?


I had you as #1 on my Do Not Call list..I've officially moved you to #578 for your insubordination. :wink:
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shewolfnm
 
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Reply Tue 18 Oct, 2005 02:07 pm
> Ringing Mrs Tea's phone<



>> riiing <<




>>>> rrriiiiiiiinnnggg<<<<


damnit woman ANSWER THE PHONE


>>> rriiiiiiiiinnngggg<<<
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viv411
 
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Reply Tue 18 Oct, 2005 02:21 pm
Allright, I get all of your reasons. I just didn't think it would be a big deal to call in sick one day. It's not like I was lying about, I don't know, killing someone. I didn't want to take a personal day and tell them the truth for the very reason that I had been here only three months. I don't know where you live but in S. Florida (in my area) we were out of electricity until Sunday and I know some parts of South Miami were out for up to 10 days. There was no reason for me to come in, I do all my work via the computer. So it was pretty much my first call in, I really didn't realize you all would be so offended. You are right I did post my request for advice or ideas, I guess in the future I'll be more selective in what I ask advise for. Thanks to all anyway, all of your advise was appreciated.
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Chai
 
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Reply Tue 18 Oct, 2005 02:22 pm
<chai takes cat and wraps it around head to block out all sound>

stay jezzer, stay.

hey! come back here!
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Bella Dea
 
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Reply Tue 18 Oct, 2005 02:23 pm
Your first call in was valid. You second, not.

And if you want the truth, don't hold back asking anything. If you want a sugar coated version, please ask me not to respond. I was not intentionally being mean. I was being blunt and honest. But should you feel that I am personally attacking you, please ask me not to offer advice or comment.
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shewolfnm
 
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Reply Tue 18 Oct, 2005 02:28 pm
Chai Tea wrote:


WWKS? (what would kicky say?)

...............


Laughing Laughing

funny thread idea there..
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shewolfnm
 
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Reply Tue 18 Oct, 2005 02:28 pm
Chai Tea wrote:


WWKS? (what would kicky say?)

...............


Laughing Laughing

funny thread idea there..
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Bella Dea
 
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Reply Tue 18 Oct, 2005 02:34 pm
A double post! Shewolf, you baaaaad girl.
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