Here's the place I stayed in Inverness on Tomales Bay. It is closer to SF than
Monterey...it is out on the coast via a beautiful drive from Petaluma. So this represents a type of alternative to the main City.
What is good about it...there are a few suites, I stayed in one. The living room and kitchen of one could be our main place, and we all get individual rooms.
Also, area is gorgeous. Very good restaurant nearby, at Manka's Inn, where my friends' wedding was held. (Monka's Inn would be a neat choice, but it is 185.00 a night and up up up. Also, quite small.)
Is near Point Reyes Station and Point Reyes...lovely.
What is bad about it...a tad on the ticky tacky side. And distance from SF, re time...people would have to have cars.
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