Pill versus bf - should i go on the pill to keep my man?

unfortunately the whole alternatives to full all the way sex just didnt seem to be enough for him bella dea.... but as i say, the other night he decided or realised that i meant more than sex which is a good thing to say the least. hehe.

he seems satisfied enough with your suggestions (we were already partaking in these) now, which seems odd because that was always available to him anyway hehe!

ahh ok sorry flushd, you are right, i do have strong instincts but i am one of those people who doesnt have enough faith in their own judgement. i am getting there though, honest!!!

You should because I think you knew what the answer was before you asked us. Have a little more faith in yourself...you are right more often than you know. :wink:

That's why I got very confused. ..He meant to be very rude? WTH??

No , NoNe.

BTW: I am a woman. A she! (checking my goodies) Yup!

the picture on ur avatar made me think u were a guy))))))

Hehe me too NoNe but then after I'd read a few posts I worked it out

Lesson learned here today? Don't judge a book (or guess it's sex) by the cover (or avatar). :wink:

surprise me, say u r an old man

lol well its all going well now and i am beginning to have much more confidence in myself, especially with my BF.

i have been to the family planning clinic and much to my relief the pill wasnt responsible for my aunties infertility but she was so distraught she would have been confused.

im trying it out but i havent told my boyfriend and we are developing the deeper side of our relationship, finding that we can talk to eachother and he is much happier.

he actually respects me more for standing my ground and believing in my decisions [lol i'll let him think i didnt have any advice ]


now we are both looking forward to starting the new term at our university and i am less afraid to assert myself when it comes to what i think of as my rights....such as the right to control what happens with my body.

lol im afraid i thought you were a man as well flushd :0S whoopsie!

Hey, right on for you Confused!
I'm happy things are working out for you.

oooh im an enthusiast in training

hope everyone else is happy and life is treating them well :0)