Whenever guy says "we can be friends" deep there in my brain a little red flag starts waving "WARNING". I mean, as a person who is in love, I would never even think about saying or suggesting "to b e a friend" to the one whom I love, because I know that it is painful to hear. How can he say something like that to u? Do not go on that Pill, even if u had already changed ur mind and was concidering it as the way out of this problem. If he is gone, do not hold him. How can one rely on a partner on a difficult time, who is not able to overcome this small thing? It is so sad, honey