I'm a slacker and a bitch

Good work, Boss, now if you can just piss in his coffee, too . . .

Sadly, with our coffee, I don't think he'd taste the difference.

Whoa . . . we're talkin' bottom of the barrel, eh?

Very bottom. Ah well, I feel better having spilled my guts. I'll have to work on my temper, I think.

yeah you do.

why did you wait until now to tell him how you feel?
That Som-a-beech come at me like that I would put him in his place.

Oh, I didn't tell him how I feel. I just shouted him down like he was the stupidest person ever to touch a computer and he didn't know ****. Which happens to be exactly how he talks to me.

good girl

From time to time now, you'll need to stand just at the outer edge of his peripheral vision, and stare at him malevolently. When he gets that creepy feeling and looks up, hiss through your teeth and walk away slowly, staring daggers at him the entire time. If he complains to anyone else, just tut-tut about the poor man losing his grip . . .

Who, sweet little old innocent me ? ! ? ! ?

I don't really feel so great about it though. Maybe it's the combination of that and my slacking that has me feeling not so good about myself just now. Yes, he deserved it, but the last thing I want to do is act like him.

You're killing me.

Since the only thing that bullies respond to is being bullied, I'm pretty sure you did the right thing.

I was going to make a humorous post about this, but couldn't get the tone right.

I was that way last week after my big DOL audit - highly satisfying, by the way. Sadly, I only had friday to scew off.

Sometimes, a unilateral offensive is the only way.

Congratulations. I will sign you up with the neocons and send you the complimentary toaster.

If it makes you feel any better, I don't think you are a slacker.

Just a bitch.

:wink:

Oy - I know just how you feel.

It DOES feel bad when you just yell at someone, acting like them, and don't address why you feel that way.

That being said, I am by no means sure that addressing the stuff as one would with most reasonable folk would do a damned bit of good.

Has this?


Any changes in behaviour?

Sometimes idiots (socially speaking) cannot respond to anything else but loud bangs, fluffed up tails, bodies puffed up to twice their size and presented to look as big as possible, loud yowls, springiest of springbok leaps, the loudest brachiating, and a damn fine reaming out.


Forget, for chrissake, about the "slacking".

You are just having a small and necessary period of fallowness. Under your soil, the worms are busy.



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Here - have a drink....

you hit the nail on the head, DrewDad.
shite-fer-brains'll think twice before invading your space next time...

If it was all in terms of computers, it sounds like this was just the kind of thing that E.G. was recommending. Better yet if he was humiliated in front of a crowd, but it sounds like you were schooling him in no uncertain terms. Could accomplish something, especially given how long you were patient (i.e. an outburst right off the bat gets you far fewer points than an outburst this far along and after umpteen provocations...)

And totally about fallow/ worms. (They tickle tho.)

Yes - but it's a FECUND tickle!



(Man, how I loved watching the worms in my garden blossom and be fruitful and multiply as I improved the soil!!!! Er - I seem to be missing a garden!)

FreeDuck--

Good for you. How did he react?

Assertive women are very likeable people--in the Best Circles.