what makes a woman?

well if you followed the discussion the way it was used was in caling people names so it was obvious. and both caling someone a name is dishonorable and you jsut made a mistake so thtat iis nothing.

material girl wrote:

have sex but feel like a whore because of what other people say, -me

Darling, unless you are getting paid for it, you aren't a whore. :wink: :

And if no one gets hurt, have all the sex you want.

Bella Dea wrote:

And if no one gets hurt, have all the sex you want.

get your head out of the sand.

And how do you get that Set was calling you a name? You have some obvious issues to deal with.

Calling people "slutty" isn't very honerable in your definition of the word.

iknow wrote:

Bella Dea wrote:

And if no one gets hurt, have all the sex you want.

get your head out of the sand.

Who does it hurt, when the two consenting adults, have sex? You?

what makes a woman honorable? imo i think not being a slut is one big thing. also being coordinated and not out of control in general.

i agree, i think that is honor too. however, you think the "slut" girls treuly believe that sleeping around is good for them?

i always thought that women were more emotoinal, thus less able to deal with the transitional stress from one guy to another, since they are more emotional, thus sleeping around like that would damage them emotinoally, especially their emotional purity, and it would even be the good thing to call them a slut in order to get them to reform .

you're right. the only one who cares about yourself is yourself. you need to be in touch with your feelings, understand if you are enjoying something, if this thing is good for you, and if you should do it. i think sluts don't think about if its actually helping them, and are being irrational and silly. if they thought about it, like you suggest, they will realize the better thing to do for themselves is not do that. that they actually like not being a slut more. they are just doing somethign they don't actually like. you want to do what is best for yourself.

if you're trying to make a woman honorable, and make her less of a slut, so she has more honor, then if calling her a slut makes her less of one, in the end you're achieveing more honor.

Bella Dea wrote:

iknow wrote:

Bella Dea wrote:

And if no one gets hurt, have all the sex you want.

get your head out of the sand.

Who does it hurt, when the two consenting adults, have sex? You?

i'm just saying don't give broad, unsupported adivce.

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what makes a woman honorable? imo i think not being a slut is one big thing. also being coordinated and not out of control in general.

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i agree, i think that is honor too. however, you think the "slut" girls treuly believe that sleeping around is good for them?

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i always thought that women were more emotoinal, thus less able to deal with the transitional stress from one guy to another, since they are more emotional, thus sleeping around like that would damage them emotinoally, especially their emotional purity, and it would even be the good thing to call them a slut in order to get them to reform .

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you're right. the only one who cares about yourself is yourself. you need to be in touch with your feelings, understand if you are enjoying something, if this thing is good for you, and if you should do it. i think sluts don't think about if its actually helping them, and are being irrational and silly. if they thought about it, like you suggest, they will realize the better thing to do for themselves is not do that. that they actually like not being a slut more. they are just doing somethign they don't actually like. you want to do what is best for yourself.

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if you're trying to make a woman honorable, and make her less of a slut, so she has more honor, then if calling her a slut makes her less of one, in the end you're achieveing more honor.

Do I have to be more obvious about the least honorable person here?

iknow wrote:

Bella Dea wrote:

iknow wrote:

Bella Dea wrote:

And if no one gets hurt, have all the sex you want.

get your head out of the sand.

Who does it hurt, when the two consenting adults, have sex? You?

i'm just saying don't give broad, unsupported adivce.

Because you give SUCH good advice with your "Slut Reformation". Please.

so then, if i am using the word nig**r in a meaningful, directed, purposeful targeted, academic, stuidious context.. then it doesnt mean nigg*r at all?


your logic leaves me dizzy

if you call someone a nigger its effect is going to be different then saying, "using the word nigger means x or y" if you're studying it its fine to use. if oyu're calling someone it then it isnt'.

my argument is that calling a woman a slut, if she is fact in an emotionally unstable state (like you argue) is only going to make her worse. it decreases her self esteem, which could cause her to spiral downward. if you are saying it to someone who in fact is an intelligent, educated, confident woman who simply enjoys sex, she isn't going to care whether you called her that or not. so using the word SLUT whether name calling or in your words to make her more honorable, is not going to accomplish that.

and name calling is name calling regardless of your so called intentions. why not sit a woman down, determine her reasoning for doing what she is doing in a mutually respectful situation? that would go alot further than just throwing out something that in today's day and age has negative connotations associated with it.

and again, why is being a slut less honorable? simply because society has deemed that women with multiple partners are less honorable than those that have one? what about a man? is he less honorable because he has multiple partners?

you know what i meant. calling someone else crap is worse than someone doing inproper grammar. there is some honor for you.

if a woman is being a slut. then you could sit her down and give her the definition, but its a little easier to just say it. and to the point. she'll understand your view better. and the situation better. you don't give out the definition, you give out the word. like switch "word" in that last sentence with its definition, whihc sounds better?. and you woman man honor thing, guys are usually praised for getting a lot of "it" so he gets more "honor" in his community - think achilles , by being aggresive, dominant, and strong. however the female achieves less honor cause she isn't sticking up for herself, being strong to herself, and proud of herself, but instead sleeping around like a litlte whore.