We have been married for a couple of years now and he is wonderful. We have a 6 month old daughter. Husband is 26 and I’m 24. I work in a hospital and some weeks I have to work a lot. I have worked with this guy (32) for about 9 months now. I would classify us as friends. There is definitely flirting and a crush. He has always been very forward towards me and we text a good bit. The other day he kissed me and I think our relationship has gotten a little out of hand. I would never sleep with him of course but it is hard to be around him sometimes. I don’t want to needlessly hurt my husband or jeopardize my job and I’m not sure what to do
No one knows. I didn’t really think I was doing anything wrong at first but I realize now I was since it has gotten physical I definitely have. And no we have a great marriage. That is what I am wondering. I feel horrible but also don’t want to just hurt him for no reason.
At first it was just innocent. I will start looking for another job. By the working a lot some weeks comment I just meant that this guy I work with spend a lot of time together
He absolutely had a romantic interest early on and still does. I just don’t know if I would actually classify this as cheating. I am going to talk to guy at work and figure out the rest from there
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bobsal u1553115
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Sun 11 Dec, 2022 08:36 pm
@Needadvice395,
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... don’t want to just hurt him for no reason.
Simple: then don't. No harm, no foul. Do not do it again.