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Do I tell my husband a guy kissed me at work or just try to move on?

 
 
Sat 10 Dec, 2022 06:07 pm
We have been married for a couple of years now and he is wonderful. We have a 6 month old daughter. Husband is 26 and I’m 24. I work in a hospital and some weeks I have to work a lot. I have worked with this guy (32) for about 9 months now. I would classify us as friends. There is definitely flirting and a crush. He has always been very forward towards me and we text a good bit. The other day he kissed me and I think our relationship has gotten a little out of hand. I would never sleep with him of course but it is hard to be around him sometimes. I don’t want to needlessly hurt my husband or jeopardize my job and I’m not sure what to do
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bobsal u1553115
 
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Sat 10 Dec, 2022 07:36 pm
What good would it do? What is he supposed to do with this information?

The real question is: why are you allowing this situation to possibly threaten your marriage? Is it in trouble already?
roger
 
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Sat 10 Dec, 2022 07:41 pm
@bobsal u1553115,
Maybe better he hear it from her than someone else.

For her, she needs to drop the flirting, texting, and so forth. It will surely come to a bad end.
bobsal u1553115
 
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Sat 10 Dec, 2022 07:52 pm
@roger,
If she's been so flagrant that there are witnesses riled enough to tell her husband, the problem is more than a kiss.

If it was one kiss, do not tell the husband. She just needs to cool it with the work friend.
Needadvice395
 
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Sat 10 Dec, 2022 08:09 pm
@bobsal u1553115,
No one knows. I didn’t really think I was doing anything wrong at first but I realize now I was since it has gotten physical I definitely have. And no we have a great marriage. That is what I am wondering. I feel horrible but also don’t want to just hurt him for no reason.
neptuneblue
 
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Sat 10 Dec, 2022 10:16 pm
@Needadvice395,
What do you mean you didn't realize heavy flirting and texting was wrong??
And no, I don't believe you wouldn't sleep with him if you had a chance.

Quit your job. Tell your husband exactly why.

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Real Music
 
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Sun 11 Dec, 2022 10:03 am
@Needadvice395,
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I work in a hospital and some weeks I have to work a lot.

1. Does the fact that some weeks you have to work a lot have some particular relevance?

2. Maybe I am reading too much into that part of your sentence.

3. Or maybe you included that in your sentence because of some particular importance or relevance.
Needadvice395
 
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Sun 11 Dec, 2022 10:10 am
@Real Music,
At first it was just innocent. I will start looking for another job. By the working a lot some weeks comment I just meant that this guy I work with spend a lot of time together
Real Music
 
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Sun 11 Dec, 2022 12:02 pm
@Needadvice395,
1. It sounds like your co-worker currently has a romantic interest in you.

2. In retrospect, when you think back, do you believe your co-worker had a romantic interest in you early on?
Needadvice395
 
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Sun 11 Dec, 2022 01:07 pm
@Real Music,
He absolutely had a romantic interest early on and still does. I just don’t know if I would actually classify this as cheating. I am going to talk to guy at work and figure out the rest from there
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bobsal u1553115
 
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Sun 11 Dec, 2022 08:36 pm
@Needadvice395,
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... don’t want to just hurt him for no reason.


Simple: then don't. No harm, no foul. Do not do it again.
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