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I like my friend of the same gender

 
 
Reply Fri 11 Nov, 2022 11:26 pm
​Hi, I just need some advice because I’m just going crazy over here.
I met this girl at work about 1.5 years ago and we became friends, then roommates. About a year ago we were out with some friends at a bar and we made out because we were both drunk. Then on the way home our friend was driving and we were in the back seat and made out even more. My friend that was driving said that we were all over each other and we seemed super into it. After that it felt like we were a little flirty with each other here and there. After we made out, even though I had too much to drink and don’t remember it, I started to have feelings for her. And to this day I just like her so much but I don’t want to tell her because I don’t want to ruin our friendship or make our living situation weird.
 

We have not made out since then but one night I did tell her that I was attracted to her and that I’d want to hook up with her if she ever was down to hook up with a girl. She said she will definitely make out with me again and would most likely hook up with me but this conversation was almost a year ago and nothing has happened. I haven’t initiated anything because I’m afraid of rejection but I want to so bad.
 

She has messed around with women before, she has told me she’s bisexual, she has said she once had feelings for some girl in the past, and all these things give me hope but I don’t know what to do. I know she’s not shy when it comes to this kind of stuff so I don’t know if she even is interested in me at this point because nothing has happened and I’m too scared to ask 😞

 

Shes literally all I think about all day. I do so much for her too to show her how much I care about her and I don’t know if she just doesn’t have a clue or she’s just not interested but this sucks.

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bobsal u1553115
 
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Reply Sat 12 Nov, 2022 06:57 am
Time is moving on and you aren't. Fish or cut bait.
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Yalow
 
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Reply Sat 12 Nov, 2022 08:39 am
@Jamie929,
From what you write, I think you have a good chance to succeed, if you ask her out.
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Agent Smith
 
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Reply Mon 14 Nov, 2022 11:15 am
@Jamie929,
Life isn't really about what you like, is it now? Bonam fortunam to the both of you - hope everything turns out for the best.
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Mrknowspeople
 
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Reply Fri 18 Nov, 2022 12:46 am
@Jamie929,
Confession is the first step of nothing. I hope you aren't married or something. My experience has been lately people who are married tend to be sudden converts.

I hope things resolve
bobsal u1553115
 
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Reply Fri 18 Nov, 2022 07:57 am
@Mrknowspeople,
Mrknowspeople wrote:

Confession is the first step of nothing. I hope you aren't married or something. My experience has been lately people who are married tend to be sudden converts.


I know you're hurt over it, but your wife leaving you doesn't necessarily mean she's gay.
Mrknowspeople
 
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Reply Sat 19 Nov, 2022 04:50 am
@Jamie929,
Did your spouse cheat on you? I wonder about that sometimes. I think we are down here and the technician engineer who handles this problem is being held down by the woman who is a man...man who is not a man.

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Shes literally all I think about all day. I do so much for her too to show her how much I care about her and I don’t know if she just doesn’t have a clue or she’s just not interested but this sucks.
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I have something similar to your thing. I, in plain super view, think about wife and fellow brother of the world and nothing else. All that I do...but it requires people to surrender to a coach who they will not dismiss and who is qualified first.

So frustrating.
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Mrknowspeople
 
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Reply Sat 19 Nov, 2022 05:06 am
@bobsal u1553115,
Hurt is not the word as I can easily say: I am not hurt per say. I hurt from the hurt she will have now all the way to the end of time and amortized and uncorrected for hurt avoided. Do you know how that can be? It is immense. But my wife has not left me, so you surmised that I was hurting from a wife who went with a competitor of services. Nah, the biggest and only offense I ever register is if she leaves it will be squarely focused on her...trust me, I do not have time or desire to put it on a group.

Leading up to a severance I want to advertise to the potential of a group wide massacre from my opinion...after event...it will be all on her so much she won't even know about it. She is the tricker who drew others in; the gift of leaving me or the opposite if my casino friends inform correctly will all be for her. Because of that huge condition I am defensive as you do not need to get dirty.

It is nearly impossible how shallow a person can be fixated on punking another with the your gay, they're gay, we're all gay...okay where is the cheer and the occasional sex party?
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JTSW
 
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Reply Thu 1 Dec, 2022 07:35 am
Bite the bullet, make a move. It might be what she's waiting for Smile
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