@Cupcakex,
Boyfriend and girlfriend relationships do not count. I know dancers, and entrepreneurship women and girls who are in bed with medical doctors, physicians, lawyers, and they sleep with college students, cashiers, maintenance, and possible lesbian encounters.
Again Bfriend and Gfriend does not count in the real world. You might be dating somebody and chances are they are sleeping with that guy who was repairing their car or computer.
The reality with people in general, everybody has a "Fail safe" to draw back on. Even in marriage. My dad wants to be with my mom again but his junk is with this other woman he committed adultry with. Why is with her? She is an accountant major and used him for his DNA and the fact he has his own income and is easy to control. She is old as him compare to my mom and now she is growing hair on her chest. Point being my dad prefer round women ( like my mother ) but again this person got down on her four legs and gave him head. Now he is trapped in her world. He wants to go back with my mom but he wants my mom to get with him first. It is cowardliness.
You have guys and gals who see you as a resource and could sleep with anything as long as it pertains to their needs.
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The way I see it is that you go out with this guy. Have casual sex and all, even call it a boyfriend girlfriend thing but again it is not a serious thing.
You slept with the guy he is coming back to you but again what kind of relationship this would be?
Think marriages where people get married for business needs. Like having a kid with somebody for the race, religion, or culture. Is it going to be a power couple thing ? Is it going to be an open relationship ? Will it be you or your better half in the shadows of the room with a cigarette watching you go at it, with somebody else, or via a video camera.