Hopefull

Hi,
I have been married for 6 years now. I am thinking to myself...when does the wife start relenting in to the ways of life that are less interested in stubborn resistance or class popularity. You know what I mean? Like I think I converted her to a Christian, Republican and Jew. I then converted out of those things and had her trick me to baptism as me being a Muslim that would be wrong. Check. I then relationship styled to a move on a marital way and made the realtor commit a level of ethical maneuvers to absolve him or her of a variance of law. SOP. Plus, the first location we were at I left the body of a snake and cat in it at the neighbors house before moving. I have done all of these things and thousands more but at six years I am starting to wonder if she is really appreciating it.
When do you know that the partner in your marriage is no longer alive? Or, at least, for purposes of living.