I told my wife's sister I love her

@DiamondRainPrincess,

Well, I know nothing about you or your life, but if you think this is a normal occurrence, it's not. I don't even know if this was a real question or some lonely entitled soul needed some excitement today.

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@glitterbag,

I was brought up in a culture that tends to normalize and condone this sort of thing, for the sake of my personal sanity I just want no part of it

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@DiamondRainPrincess,

Sorry to hear that.

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@Stovetop37,

You’re pretty much screwed Stovetop. You have violated this perverted society’s rule that you can’t, or at least shouldn’t 'love' more than one other.

Jesus was just using a figure of speech when he talked of 'love'.

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@Stovetop37,

I'd be packing my things if I was your wife.

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@Leadfoot,

I'm confused, did Jesus want men to sleep with their sister-in-laws? I didn't know that, thank you for all that helpful information.

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@glitterbag,

You are confused, but your confusion is about love, not who Jesus wants men (or women) to sleep with.

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@Leadfoot,

Yeah sure, that must be it.

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@glitterbag,

lol

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@glitterbag,

Glad to help, anytime.

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@Stovetop37,

You should have had the courage to tell it to your wife first or to stay shut with her sister! While feelings are what they are your wife has the right to be respected and know!

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@glitterbag,

Holly crap that made laugh hard...I can barely imagine if I ever told my wife I loved her sister...sheeesh...I would be a dead man and rightfully so!

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@Albuquerque,

Can you imagine explaining this to the Father-In-Law, "Look Dad, I love my wife but her sister is hot" and then expects Dad to tell him to 'explore his feelings', 'be true to yourself ', 'try to stay happy'......................This was a stupid thing for the OP to do.

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@glitterbag,

I still remember the day I had "the talk" with my father in Law back when I met my wife Dulce almost 20 years ago...long bear, Visigothic face, he looked like an old judge and I was in court...thankfully he liked my poems and judge me right...he was very discrete but very assertive with me.

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@Albuquerque,

Maybe that's the difference. I never got 'that talk' (or any other). But as always, I got the impression that my dad thought I didn’t have any idea what I was doing.

He was right of course. He never taught me a damn thing.
In the long run, I’ve come to see that as a blessing, so it all worked out.

Glad it worked out for you Fil. You too Gbag.

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@Leadfoot,

On a serious note, it had to be awful growing up with a parent who thought you were a disappointment. It always means the parents are the disappointment, they gave up humanity a long time ago.

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@glitterbag,

Roger that glitter.

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@Leadfoot,

Roger don't glitter.

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The OP may have been set up.

Vulnerable sil moans about “not feeling loved” and so he jumps in and takes the bait.

Poor sucker.

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@Stovetop37,

I have dealt with this problem many, many times. Sucks how people can be about love. I will tell a person I love them because it isn't hard for me to see that I love people. However, I have had people identify that unstated love and capitalize on it inappropriately. The case against them does lean on whether or not I told them I loved them as a way to prove they had no assumption rights.

You should let your wife know.

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