Momma Angel wrote:Eorl Wrote:
Quote:Momma you are dead wrong. Sorry.
Those who oppose the abolition of abortion are not pro-abortion! That's just being deliberately obtuse.
Do you realise you've just defined yourself as "pro-abortion" by your own rules because you think there are some justifiable cases?
I hate the thought of abortion too.
I just think it's up to the women (and partly the men) who get pregnant to decide such matters for themselves up to a point, (arbitrary though that point may be) without being told by me how they should behave or what they should believe.
Strangely enough Momma, I think that this is a very good example of where you are not as respectful of others beliefs as you think...and in this case, certainly less respectful than I am !
It goes back to what I was saying about people only really respecting those beliefs that agree with, or at least don't contradict, one's own beliefs.
To see abortion "banned, period" is to impose your beliefs by law !
Eorl, I'm hurt. You seemed to have changed your tone with me. Let me see if I can explain myself a bit more clearly.
I do not believe it is any human being's right to decide a child should/could be aborted. I liken it to murder. Harsh? Yes, but that is what I believe.
Now, I could understand (not like, not accept as right) the fact that there are cases in which a mother's life might be in danger if she continues in the pregnancy and an abortion is performed. I could understand the decision for it. But, to me, it's still killing a child.
I understand that many of those that are pro-choice say they are actually anti-abortion. To me, that is so confusing. IMO they are still putting the rights of a mother over the rights of an innocent child. Human beings do not have that right to decide that. So, if they are pro-choice (IMO) they are more pro-abortion than not. But, that is just my opinion. I was not being deliberately obtuse. I just didn't state clearly what I meant.
Eorl, I respect your right to your beliefs and your feelings. Just because I disagree with you does not mean I don't respect you. Now, you may feel that because I am not pro-choice that I am being disrespectful. If you feel that way, I am sorry. I am very firm in my beliefs and will not apologize for them. But, I will not condemn anyone for what they do. That is not my place, nor do I have the authority to do so.
To see abortion banned period? Yes. But to impose my beliefs by law? Know this, Eorl. I was against abortion before I ever became a Christian. I am against abortion because of an experience in my life that had absolutely nothing to do with Christianity.
Momma, no need to feel hurt, as I've said before it's difficult to discuss such emotive opinions without causing offense. Please don't read too much "tone" into what I'm saying. (BTW Calling someone "pro-abortion" is pretty nasty on your part
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I didn't say you fail to respect the people, just that you do not respect their beliefs unless they coincide with yours (and I've been suggesting that all of us do this - me included). My problem with that is that you (and for that matter many, many people) think that their opinion (such as on this matter) is RIGHT beyond question and some claim to be backed up by various claims to know how various gods feel about it too.
The thing is, when you say the embryo has a soul, that it is a complete perfect human being and deserves full rights as such ....you have to realise that this is an opinion, not an irrefutable truth no matter how strongly you believe it. Expecting other people to adopt that belief is intolerant and arrogant. Very few christians I've met have described themselves as intolerant and arrogant, yet are happy to expound views like this and take great offence at being attacked for it. I think they are blissfully unaware of the arrogance of the certainty of their "faith" and derivative "laws" that others should follow even if they don't share that faith.
(and yes, I'm generalizing mostly so I don't seem to be attacking you directly because as you know I try hard not to be rude without good cause)
As to why you are against abortion is beside the point entirely, this is all about what you would legislate to have other people do, or not do.
Christians claim all the moral high ground by claiming to defend the rights of the unborn "child", and they do this by claiming certain knowledge of when a "child" can be said to exist. By ignoring any other opinions on this critical point, they can use all the normal human rights arguments to support their argument, and claim that the rest of us are inhumane animals who have no respect for basic human rights!! It's a con job, pure and simple.
The bizarre thing is, "the church" won't even allow the use of condoms because it murders potential children, same goes for the morning after pill that prevents ovulation....that's PRE-fertilization folks. So at what point do potential children exist that the church claims to need to defend the rights of them? Do they exist after sex but before fertilization...maybe during the arousal phase....maybe even halfway through dessert when I think I've got a good chance of an invite back to her place!
I'm rambling I know, but man, you guys are so certain of everything you think you know...it's scary.