Shazzer
 
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Reply Thu 4 Aug, 2005 03:07 pm
I feel you, Phoenix, cause AS is one of my favorite books. Cool
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Phoenix32890
 
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Reply Thu 4 Aug, 2005 03:16 pm
Shazzer- Actually, AS came later for me. The writing that literally hit me like a ton of bricks was this:

http://pd.sparknotes.com/lit/anthem/section11.html

THAT was life changing!
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Arella Mae
 
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Reply Thu 4 Aug, 2005 04:15 pm
Shazzer,

If I have made it seems as though I thought you or Phoenix was trying to force their convictions on me, I am sorry. I do not feel that you have done that in any way and neither has Phoenix. Some have, however, and perhaps I had an open wound there? Just a nick maybe.

And no, hon, I do not believe you are completely amoral because you are not following just one of God's laws. If I made it seem like that, I do apologize.

Certainly, people can live good clean, moral lives without being a Christian. I just follow the "not by works, but by grace are ye saved" philosophy.

And, as I have said before, I enjoy these discussions with you. You bring up some of the most interesting questions and are very kind and respectful in your postings. This is the kind of discussion that can actually help people find common ground instead of digging in on either end and not budging. And for that, thank you.

And Shazzer, your paragraph there about not waiting on edict from high is an exact example of exercising your free will. I will find those verses for you a bit later on.

We are pulling out for SC in the morning and I still have a lot to do! I won't be back til the 13th and really going to miss all of you!


Phoenix, I am glad that I did not take what you said as sarcastic. That's why I asked. I made that mistake with someone on the forum once and was deeply embarrassed by my reaction. And thank you for the kind comment about my courage. Though, like I said, it's not courage anymore. It happened so long ago. I learned from it and moved on. Very Happy

Everything we have been through makes up part of what we are today.
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real life
 
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Reply Thu 4 Aug, 2005 05:31 pm
Phoenix32890 wrote:
real life wrote:
So if abortion was illegal, and the unborn had legal protection and status as a person, what would be your position then?


I would fight like hell to get the law changed. I lived at a time when abortion WAS illegal, and I knew a number of people who had to go to a more enlightened country to have a pregnancy terminated. The people that I knew were middle class, and could afford to go to a clean facility for the procedure. The poor had to resort to coat hangers and back alley butchers.

I think that even attempting to grant legal status to the unborn would be a travesty. I know that there are many, especially on the Christian Right, who would be delighted if that happened.

I object to the term pro-abortion. I prefer pro-choice. No one, but the most muddleheaded, immature, and illogical, would think, "Aw, what the heck. If I get pregnant, I can always do away with it". I believe that abortion is a hard and emotional decision, and never a happy one. Personally, as a young woman, I always said that if I inadvertently became pregnant, I probably would NOT want to abort. Thankfully, that decision never had to be made. But that was MY choice, and I do not believe in foisting my beliefs on other people, which some now are attempting to do.

In other words, IMO, each woman has the right to decide what is best for HER life. Also, IMO, the rights of a living woman trumps the rights of a fetus, every time.


Hi Phoenix,

Previously you stated

Quote:
the bottom line is that it is the woman's body, and, IMO, as long as the product of the conception is not a legal person, she has a perfect right to do with it as she wishes.
(emphasis mine)

But now you seem to be saying that whether or not the unborn has legal protection under the law, that the woman somehow has a "right" to abort it anyway. If not a legal right then possibly a "moral right" , even if such is not recognized by law.

However your argument concerning the unborn seems to be that he has no rights BECAUSE they are recognized by law.

Why is it ok for the woman to have a "moral right" to abortion, even if the law does not recognize such at the time; but in your view the unborn cannot have a "moral right" to live, even if the law DOES recognize it?

Seems rather contradictory.
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Arella Mae
 
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Reply Thu 4 Aug, 2005 06:02 pm
Shazzer,

I am taking a quick break here and thought I would jot down some verses for ou.

Joshua 24:15

But if serving the Lord seems undesirable to you, then choose for yourselves this day whom you will serve, whether the gods your forefathers served beyond the River, or the gods of the Amorites, in who land you are living.

John 7:17

If anyone chooses to do God's will, he will find out whether my teaching comes from God or whether I speak on my own.

Deuteronomy 30:19

Now choose life, so that you and your children may live and that you may love the Lord your God, listen to His voice, and hold fast to Him.
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Frank Apisa
 
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Reply Fri 5 Aug, 2005 03:35 am
Intrepid wrote:
MA.... Sharing your story took courage and conviction on your part. I applaud your candor and selflessness in providing this background. A terrible ordeal for anyone to go through, but even the more traumatic for a 13 year old child.

For those that claim that only a fetus is being aborted by the pregnant mother.... Consider this.

If it isn't a baby, then you aren't pregnant. What/Why are you aborting?


That makes no sense.

If a person is pregnant...she is pregnant. The zygote, embryo, or fetus growing inside of her does not have to be a child in order for her to be pregnant.

And it is an embryo, zygote, or fetus that is being aborted.
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Arella Mae
 
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Reply Fri 5 Aug, 2005 03:42 am
Frank,

That may be what it is to YOU. To me it was MY CHILD!
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Frank Apisa
 
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Reply Fri 5 Aug, 2005 04:10 am
Momma Angel wrote:
Frank,

That may be what it is to YOU. To me it was MY CHILD!


I was not talking about YOUR CHILD, MA...so stop the shyt.
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Joe Nation
 
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Reply Fri 5 Aug, 2005 04:27 am
Momma Angel wrote:
Frank,

That may be what it is to YOU. To me it was MY CHILD!


And you are still carrying that child and all the guilt from that horrific situation of nearly forty years ago. I am not unsympathetic.

But, this is what the guilt-mongers reap for us. I ask you all. Was justice ever served for that little 13 year old who thought she HAD to carry the product of rape to term? This was not her responsibility. The responsible people around her, who should have sheltered her from thinking she had any responsiblity, are the true guilty ones, they and the perpetrator, the rapist, that is. Who wants to bet that the rapist never served a day in jail?
Yet the 13 year old is allowed to believe she holds the weight of the situation on herself. Talk about twisting the shame.

Joe(Adults are there for a reason)Nation
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Arella Mae
 
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Reply Fri 5 Aug, 2005 04:35 am
Gee Frank,

I guess since Intrepid was talking to me there where the MA is, I must have misunderstood

And Joe, I appreciate what you said. But let me assure you of something. No one told me it was my responsibility to carry the child. It was my decision. I may have only been thirteen, but I was well counseled before I made my decision.

And, by the way, the rapist spent six years in jail.

I no longer carry shame or guilt for this. But thank you for your sentiment. It means a lot to me.
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Joe Nation
 
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Reply Fri 5 Aug, 2005 04:42 am
Momma Angel: I know you are trying to get on the road. We'll talk when you get bacK.

Be well.

Joe
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Arella Mae
 
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Reply Fri 5 Aug, 2005 04:47 am
Thanx Joe. Will be pulling out in just a couple of hours!

Take care!
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Intrepid
 
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Reply Fri 5 Aug, 2005 04:49 am
Have a great trip, Momma Angel.
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Arella Mae
 
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Reply Fri 5 Aug, 2005 04:57 am
Thanx Intrepid! I will be back the 13th! See you then!
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Frank Apisa
 
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Reply Fri 5 Aug, 2005 09:19 am
Momma Angel wrote:
Gee Frank,

I guess since Intrepid was talking to me there where the MA is, I must have misunderstood


Well...I detect a note of sarcasm here...but the fact is I stand by what I said...in both posts.

As regards Intrepid's comment:
Quote:
For those that claim that only a fetus is being aborted by the pregnant mother.... Consider this.

If it isn't a baby, then you aren't pregnant. What/Why are you aborting?


My answer stands:

{quote]If a person is pregnant...she is pregnant. The zygote, embryo, or fetus growing inside of her does not have to be a child in order for her to be pregnant.

And it is an embryo, zygote, or fetus that is being aborted. [/quote]

And as regards your comment:

Quote:
That may be what it is to YOU. To me it was MY CHILD!


My response stands:

Quote:
I was not talking about YOUR CHILD, MA...so stop the shyt.



I want women to have a choice to continue a pregnancy or to terminate it should they choose. PERIOD!
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Frank Apisa
 
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Reply Fri 5 Aug, 2005 03:23 pm
Here's a link to a new thread I started. I hope everyone involved in this thread will stop by and offer an opinion.

http://www.able2know.com/forums/viewtopic.php?t=56936&highlight=
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real life
 
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Reply Fri 5 Aug, 2005 08:30 pm
auroreII wrote:
Abortion is a kind of genocide.

Planned Parenthood is a big supporter of abortion rights, but don't forget Planned Parenthood's founder Martha Sanger wrote that she favored birth control and sterilization to get rid of the poor and undesirables. You can read about this in her Malthusian Population Doctrine and in the Birth Control Review- 10/1926. (The following was taken from a letter to the editor) "The next time you hear someone bragging that Sanger's Planned Parenthood provides birth control and abortion to the poor, remember this, it does so not out of any love for the poor, but because it was founded on a doctrine that holds the poor in such contempt that it hates to see them reproduce."

Many women I know who support the right to an abortion do so out of a compassion they feel towards those women whose pregnancies may present a hardship for them. I prefer not to get into arguments over that. I understand their reasoning, but I hope they can at least see beyond the euphamisms for what abortion really is. I choose life.

Rush Limbaugh said he was against abortion because it "cheapens life". He was once confronted by a pro-abortion advocate who told him that abortion was necessary to prevent a child who is terminally ill or deformed from suffering. Mr. Limbaugh told that person that life is full of suffering. Everyone suffers, we can't avoid it. If we justify abortion to avoid suffering then why should anyone bother being born at all? Life can be hard sometimes. Choosing life can mean hardship.

Designer families are possible in the U.S. With abortion people can pick and choose when to have their kids, decide on how their ages will be spaced and can rid themselves of unwanted and imperfect children by early prenatal detection of mental and physical defects. I read an article in the paper where scientists were claiming that in a few years there will be a "cure" for cystic fibrosis and other genetic diseases. This will be accomplished by the in-vitro fertilization of the egg so that the genetic make-up can be examined and any imperfect embryos can be discarded down the sink drain. Is this a "cure"? It sounds like genocide. Imperfect people would be denied the right to be born. It's a dilemma. Given the choice between having a healthy child or an unhealthy one with genetic defects how many are going to pick the unhealthy one? I'll tell you one thing for sure, this isn't a "cure" for these diseases.

Here are some more reasons pro-abortionists have said we need abortion. We need abortion to reduce the number of babies born with drug addictions and A.I.D.S.. They say we need abortion for the poor to keep the number of babies born on welfare down so that our overburdened welfare system doesn't become more strained. They feel abortion is the answer, the "cure", for these problems.

A few years ago I watched a documentary about an abortion clinic in India . India has a problem with overpopulation and poor. In India a man has greater value than a woman. It has something to do with their religion I believe. I forget exactly how many abortions were performed at that clinic- one hundred? two hundred?, yet I was shocked to hear that only one of those abortions was performed on a male fetus. Genocide. Women are expenable because they aren't valuable. If the family was poor and couldn't afford a lot of children and the child was female then it was the most apt to be aborted.

When we make exceptions for killing it puts everyone at risk. What is to prevent someone from making you or your kind an exception?


You raise some valid points, AuroreII.

Margaret Sanger, as one of the "intellectual lights" of the early organizations that eventually morphed into Planned Parenthood, was an admirer of the National Socialist Party of Germany and specifically of the Chancellor's policies, though they caused her some discomfort later as the unfolding events revealed the barbarity it had led to. Her doctrine of racial and religious superiority led to philosophically targeting minorities, the poor and some religious groups as those that needed to have their numbers "reduced" by abortion.

To this day, the majority of Planned Parenthood abortion clinics are in areas where the poor and minorities are prevalent. The apple doesn't fall far from the tree.

The inherent racism of Planned Parenthood's abortion marketing practices is apparent when you look at where they concentrate their efforts.
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CalamityJane
 
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Reply Fri 5 Aug, 2005 09:25 pm
Sorry to jump in only on page 60.
I personally would never have opted for an abortion,
yet I am pro choice, as I would never be that presumptuous to decide over the body of another woman.

With that philosophy in mind, I counselled at Planned Parenthood for a number of years. The three PP offices I worked out of, were all in a desirable neighborhood and the majority of women were white college-aged women who opted for an abortion.

So the majority of Planned Parenthood's are not in poor
areas where minorities are prevalent. On the other hand, I am certain there are several PP offices in Alabama in a minority prevalent area, as they are in more affluent neighborhoods in Connecticut.

Unless you can prove an inherent racism of Planned Parenthood, I'd be very careful with statements such as yours. Perhaps you should rephrase them as your opinion only, real life.

Thank you!
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real life
 
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Reply Fri 5 Aug, 2005 10:06 pm
CalamityJane wrote:
Sorry to jump in only on page 60.
I personally would never have opted for an abortion,
yet I am pro choice, as I would never be that presumptuous to decide over the body of another woman.

With that philosophy in mind, I counselled at Planned Parenthood for a number of years. The three PP offices I worked out of, were all in a desirable neighborhood and the majority of women were white college-aged women who opted for an abortion.

So the majority of Planned Parenthood's are not in poor
areas where minorities are prevalent. On the other hand, I am certain there are several PP offices in Alabama in a minority prevalent area, as they are in more affluent neighborhoods in Connecticut.

Unless you can prove an inherent racism of Planned Parenthood, I'd be very careful with statements such as yours. Perhaps you should rephrase them as your opinion only, real life.

Thank you!


Your experience is atypical of the abortion business in general.

Quote:
Black women are more than 3 times as likely as white women to have an abortion, and Hispanic women are 2 1/2 times as likely.
from the Alan Guttmacher Institute statistics www.agi-usa.org

A very high incidence indeed.

Quote:
Women aged 20-24 obtain 33% of all abortions
from AGI also

Not a majority as with your stated experience.

Quote:
57% are economically disadvantaged;
88% live in a metropolitan area;
from AGI also

Your description of abortion as only relating to the woman's body is incorrect since the unborn's body is the one that is chemically burned during a saline abortion; or hacked, sliced and dismembered during a D&C abortion; or in the case of a partial birth abortion the unborn's head is pierced at the base of the skull and a vacuum sucks the brain out.

The fact that the unborn has it's own DNA pattern from conception forward denotes that it is not part of the mother's body but has a distinct genetic and biological identity. The unborn obviously resides within the mother and is desparately dependent upon the mother for safety and well being, but the unborn is biologically not part of the mother's body.

The heartbeat and brainwaves which develop early in the unborn's development are certainly not the mother's either. They belong to and originate with the unborn's body, not the mother's.
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CalamityJane
 
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Reply Fri 5 Aug, 2005 10:42 pm
From the same source you have quoted (AGI USA)

Quote:
Abortion is a common experience: At current rates, about one in three American women will have had an abortion by the time she reaches age 45. Moreover, a broad cross section of U.S. women have abortions. 56% of women having abortions are in their 20s; 61% have one or more children; 67% have never married; 57% are economically disadvantaged; 88% live in a metropolitan area; and 78% report a religious affiliation. No racial or ethnic group makes up a majority: 41% of women obtaining abortions are white non-Hispanic, 32% are black non-Hispanic, 20% are Hispanic and 7% are of other racial backgrounds.


No racial or ethnic group makes up a majority.....

Now let's examine your horror stories about abortion.
The facts are:

Quote:
Vacuum aspiration (the suction method) is the most common type of abortion. It is a surgical procedure that involves anesthesia and can be performed within the first trimester of pregnancy. In vacuum aspiration, the cervix (bottom part of the uterus) is gently "dilated" (opened) about a quarter-inch, a narrow tube is inserted through the vagina and cervix to the uterus, and then contents of the uterine internal lining are vacuumed out. The procedure takes only a couple minutes and the woman can usually return home later in the day.

Abortions are more rare in the second trimester, which begins in the 13th week of pregnancy. In these procedures, a medication called prostaglandin is generally given in a clinic. This results in uterine contractions, which can last some hours, and usually is accompanied by some anesthesia. Many doctors who will perform first-trimester abortions will not perform them during second trimester; women may need referral to specialists with greater experience here.

Third-trimester abortions (after 24 weeks) are reserved for severely deformed fetuses or for when the mother's life is in danger.


The following statement is your opinion and you are
certainly entitled to it, however has no merit in a court
of law, gladly so, I might add.

Quote:
The unborn obviously resides within the mother and is desparately dependent upon the mother for safety and well being, but the unborn is biologically not part of the mother's body.
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