I am going through all the things you listed and I am completely heartbroken. This is devastating.
Children are safe, I went to the court and filed a restraining order, in case he gets out of the hospital without my knowledge.
The doctors are trying to figure out what caused he. He was completely normal and then just snapped. He's paranoid and it is all directed at me. He thinks I am the sick person and I am doing this to him because I am sick. He was taken to the hospital by the doctors, it was not willing. We tried to get him to self admit but he didn't and the doctors wanted him there because he didn't show up when he said he would. He is not on board because he thinks nothing is wrong and he thinks he should be released.
No Diagnosis. We are waiting for an MRI. We are trying to see if it was drug induced with an unknown substance that may not show up on a tox screen. We are looking into all mental illness, namely the ones you have named. His is an alcoholic, so it could be a factor. He also could have hit his head when he was drunk, could have a brain tumor. We're pretty much back at square one. This is the second time he's been there and he got worse after his first stay last month. He was also sent to detox and has been alcohol free since 8/27.
Everyone is at a loss. He thinks I am putting surveillance on him, tapping his phone. That I have been planning this since the day I met him (we've been together just shy of 7 years). He thinks I am a sociopath and that this is a big game to me. It's horrible being the main source his paranoia is directed at. He hears God speaking to him, said there is a demon in his head. He had moments of clarity but I haven't seen one of those in a few days. He's just gone. Suddenly gone.
He was complaining of hearing loss in one ear, headaches, his blood pressure is through the roof and he's lost a lot of weight. He's not taking care of himself anymore.
I feel like life just crumbled into a million pieces. My family wants me to move on completely and I am not ready to stop fighting for him to get help and a diagnosis. I am stuck in a nightmare.