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Tricked to meet her new boyfriend? WTF!?

 
 
Reply Sun 25 Jul, 2021 11:15 am
I've known a girl (around 30 y/o) for a few weeks, nothing has happened, I like her but she doesn't drive me crazy.

But yesterday I was tricked by her into going to a supposed gathering of friends, and on her way it turns out that it was a meeting with her new boyfriend and his friends.

So she wanted to humiliate me or something?
Is this a common thing?
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jespah
 
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Reply Sun 25 Jul, 2021 11:19 am
@MatthewOrff,
Why would you consider that you were being tricked. Her boyfriend's friends may very well be her friends.
edgarblythe
 
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Reply Sun 25 Jul, 2021 11:36 am
Looks like she wanted to include you in a circle of special friends.
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MatthewOrff
 
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Reply Sun 25 Jul, 2021 12:15 pm
@jespah,
No, the boyfriend's friends were not her friends. He's just a random guy that she met two weeks ago.
Ragman
 
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Reply Sun 25 Jul, 2021 12:25 pm
@MatthewOrff,
You started off saying you know her... not that you have some established romance. So move on and find someone else that you would want to see. Who cares what or why she sees this guy?
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jespah
 
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Reply Sun 25 Jul, 2021 12:26 pm
@MatthewOrff,
Then let it go.

It happened, it's done, whatever her motivation was, she's not your gf anyway.
MatthewOrff
 
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Reply Sun 25 Jul, 2021 12:59 pm
@jespah,
So it's okay for you that someone purposely lies to you and uses you for their double agenda?
jespah
 
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Reply Sun 25 Jul, 2021 01:04 pm
@MatthewOrff,
I don't normally get all bent out of shape about people I've only known a few weeks.

If it bothers you, here's an idea. Stop hanging around with her.

BTW since you've known her less than a month, why wouldn't her bf see you as some random guy she had met three weeks ago?

She ain't worth all the agita.
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PUNKEY
 
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Reply Sun 25 Jul, 2021 01:05 pm
So a girl takes you to a party and you feel “ used.”?

How so?

MatthewOrff
 
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Reply Sun 25 Jul, 2021 01:11 pm
@PUNKEY,
Party?

If a girl takes you to a supposedly friendly meeting and then it results in a meeting with "look who am I going to ****" then would you feel happy?
glitterbag
 
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Reply Sun 25 Jul, 2021 01:58 pm
@MatthewOrff,
Matthew, you need to calm down. This is very unbecoming.
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Mame
 
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Reply Sun 25 Jul, 2021 04:04 pm
@MatthewOrff,
MatthewOrff wrote:

I've known a girl (around 30 y/o) for a few weeks, nothing has happened, I like her but she doesn't drive me crazy.


I really don't understand what your issue is. She doesn't drive you crazy? Maybe she feels the same way and this is why 'nothing has happened'? This was a chance for you to meet other ladies not pout and sulk and perhaps completely misinterpret the invitation.
VABGirl
 
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Reply Sat 31 Jul, 2021 05:50 am
@Mame,
I agree
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VABGirl
 
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Reply Sat 31 Jul, 2021 07:59 am
@MatthewOrff,
You need a new girl.
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Medusax
 
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Reply Mon 2 Aug, 2021 11:40 am
@MatthewOrff,
Ok...can you perhaps explain what it is that you seem to feel you have "lost?" You have only known the girl for a "few weeks' and nothing has happened. I'm sorry...I've BEEN humiliated by the opposite sex and that is not what this is. Did she promise you otherwise? Did she lead you on and THEN do this? I'm confused...
glitterbag
 
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Reply Wed 4 Aug, 2021 04:52 pm
@Medusax,
I suspect the OP is a novice INCEL.
Medusax
 
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Reply Wed 4 Aug, 2021 10:43 pm
@glitterbag,
I had to look that up. I have never heard that term before. (?)
glitterbag
 
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Reply Thu 5 Aug, 2021 01:10 pm
@Medusax,
were you able to get a definition?
Medusax
 
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Reply Fri 6 Aug, 2021 01:19 pm
@glitterbag,
Yes, otherwise I would have been asking you what it meant.
Incel | Definition of Incel by Merriam-Websterhttps://www.merriam-webster.com › dictionary › incel
Incel definition is - a person (usually a man) who regards himself or herself as being involuntarily celibate and typically expresses extreme resentment and ...


Learn something new every day......
Mame
 
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Reply Sun 8 Aug, 2021 03:48 pm
@Medusax,
LOL... I thought it was more to do with being a member of an anti-govt or subversive group or something.

Words and time - weird. Like "Sick" and "Dope" mean "great", ha ha

Thanks for posting that as I would probably never have looked it up.
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