husband is looking at Teen-porn

I have to believe you're wrong on that one, kicky. I would guess the average guy would find young women much more appealing than teenagers. Teenagers are for high school kids.

Well, you'd guess wrong then.

Are you implying that you're average, kicky?

No, I'm saying that I know everything. Sheesh, keep up, will ya?

One of these days I am going to kick your teeth out.

Them's fightin' words.

<throws down gauntlet>

Both of you are right.

Guys like teenagers, guys like young women. You dopes are both saying the same damn thing. A good deal of porn (so I have been told) focuses on eighteen or nineteen year olds. This means they are both teenagers and young women (and too old for high school kids.)

Now quit bickering or I'll have to teach you both a lesson.

Nothing wrong with a good 25 year old.

I'll take the older women (25-87)

Kicky can rob the cradle

Sure, in real life, I don't want no damn seventeen or eighteen-year old girl, but it's a goddammed fantasy!!! Every once in a while I like to fantasize about a hot little teenage babysitter! In fact, I have this one movie where this babysitter and this midget are in the crib and she takes the baby bottle and...ooh, wait--have I revealed too much?

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Yeah, but I don't think our question poster is talking about teens in general, but prepubescent, as in prepubes.

Personally I am only somewhat disturbed that the spouse is doing something illegal, which in turn endangers her.
I am more worried that he's got a weird fixation, and all the ramifications of what that could mean.

I did it...I told my husband that I saw the pictures that he was looking up on the web. I told him that the pictures of these "barely legal" girls was disturbing. I told him that despite what the banner may read "Ripe and Ready at 18"...that if these girls are underage it is simply illegal. He seemed embarrassed but really didn't say anything else about it. I haven't found any evidence that he is downloading the pics. I don't believe he is a danger to children...however it seems that the pics he's viewing seem to suggest that he enjoys looking at younger women. I don't like it, but I don't think I would be happy with him looking at "older" women either because of our current problems. I intend on talking further about this situation in our next counseling session. Thank you to all who replied...logging onto this web site has been good for me.

I'm pretty sure these are adult models posing as "younger teens" . They are shaved and have small lines of pubs showing, all have petite boobies which is completely opposite of my double D's. Most of the banners read "barely legal" and " 18 and ready". But still...

Good to read that progress is being made, xx123xx.

Yeah, take it from me, a recovering porn addict--this is absolutely NOT kiddie porn. This is good old-fashioned mainstream filth.

Agreeing with Kicky,

The term "barely legal" is a common phrase wihch refers to a very popular kind of pornography. These women are trying to look 18 (or maybe 16 or 17, but not 12). Smallish breasts and shaving is pretty standard (and not much different than what Playboy and all publish in their "college specials"). This is probably the most downloaded type of smut.

To confirm this, take a trip to the adult section of your local video store and see how many of the videos offer this subject matter-- and how many even have the term "barely legal" on the box.

You should certainly talk about your relationship with your husband, and you should tell him how it makes you feel.

But there is nothing you have described that is "abnormal" (at least compared to the act of viewing the stuff in the first place).

This isn't any different than any other fantasy. He doesn't want little girls.

But we don't really know that, do we?

Let us say that a grown man is loooking at porno pics of 18-20 year olds dressed, shaved and posed as pre-adolescents. Is he fantasizing about sex with an 18-20 year old actress, or a 12 year old kid?

I really believe that xx123xx needs to think this through very carefully, and meet with the therapist on her own.

It may be nothing, simply a fantasy, or something much more sinister. We have ablsolutely no way of knowing which. The problem is that, out of the corner of my eye, I see a lot of red flags, and would not ignore it.

I agree with phoenix... it is one thing to look at barely 18 girls but it is another to look at girls trying to look 14 or 15. I would keep a close eye on his habits and make sure they don't get any younger.