Squinney -
where did you get those songs from? Do you remember the name of the song collection?
Those kinds of songs would be great right now > she is begining her 'copy cat' stage and actually mumbled her first audiable word!
" UUUhhhh Toooo FFFEEeeeee " ( one two three. ) :-)
Would love to use that copy cat desire to teach her more Mommy security!
I think I am pretty much convinced it is all seperation anxiety. IF- she woke up during the night like this, I wouldnt be so dead set on it.. but, there are no other signs of anything wrong.
Last night we had the WORST night yet. But, I didnt think ahead before I did this :
Re-arranged her room .
>sigh< Holy crap. I will have to hire a psychologist later on in her life to correct this mistake. HA! Horrible timing to decide to do that, but she got a spider bite the night before that is pretty bad. There were 2 boxes of stuff in her room semi-close to her bed that have not been touched in months . So, to keep her safe, I decided to take out the boxes, pull her bed away from the wall, dust, vacuum, polish, and sweep in all the small cracks and behind everything to try to shoo that spider out.
I didnt put her bed back in the same area in case I missed the little spider. SO- i took her in her room after I was done, shut the door and let her walk around and get used to the setting. She didnt seem the least bit bothered by it.
Come night time, after her bath, I was getting her into her night gown and she screamed so hard I thought there was a bug or something bitting her. Again while I was rocking her and despite me checking on her, her crying lasted 45 minutes after she was put in bed.
I ended up rocking her again for a while and even that didnt calm her. Though the intensity of her crying dropped significantly , it took another 10 minutes after I rocked her to get her to bed.
If it were not for the rearranged room, I would have stuck to the simple comforting of rubbing her back or just saying something to her like I usualy do.
>sigh<
Today I am going to spend more time in her bedroom, just her and I, and I think I will put her in her bed when it ISNT nap time, and see if she will play with me while I sit outide her bed....