sozobe wrote:You say her regular schedule was employed immediately after you got back -- what about when you were gone?.
No.
When we were there, things were so out of order for her that her 'routine' became a quickie more then anything else. Rocking and bottle time never changed, but diaper changing took place on a bed instead of her changing table where we usually talk.. baths were earlier then bed time and usually it was my mom who was giving the bath.. and a few other things were diffrent.
sozobe wrote:Have you ever let her cry it out before this?.
Yes.
She had to learn the 'no pick up' rule . But that only took 2 days. And if it got bad, i would walk in the room, stroke her back or sit in the rocking chair where she could see me for a few minutes, then leave again.
I only had to go back into her room twice while she was learning that. She caught on quickly..
sozobe wrote:Main thing I'd like to know is whether the crying had been an issue before you left, and how you handled it then.
Honestly, no.
She never woke up this scared.
Never objected to going to bed this
bad!
Usually, if she was still a little awake when I put her in bed, she would cry for about a minute... ( if that ) and then just sit quietly in her bed playing with her toes or nightgown until she was able to sleep.
If she ever woke up crying , there was a physical reason I could find.
One time, a string she had pulled from her night gown had gotten between her toes until the skin was red from irritation. She woke up crying because of that. Again.. something I could find.
If she woke up before me, she would sit contently in her bed, talk to herself.. etc until I got up , OR go back to sleep.
She wakes up normally at 7am. Now she is waking up sometimes at 5am and not wanting to go back to sleep. It isnt always that early,that was an extreme case that happened a few days ago.
Her crying is so hard sometimes she is coughing from it.
If this ever happened before, wich i truly dont remember it..
It was so close to her normal waking time that I just got up with her anyways. She has never lost sleep or slept for such short times over it , like she is now.