@Sturgis,
Thanks for the reply, tho I don't think you get what i'm saying there.
I obviously can't go and make friend requests to random people, I have to be sure that the people I add without knowing them, understand why we are ''friends'' on facebook... to manipulate it and not be manipulated by it (bots are also excellent)
I have to investigate if there are people out there who have the same concerns with me, and it seems there are but they don't bother with it
you obviously don't care to understand what i'm saying in the original post and you do very well, I'm jealous of you