Unfortunately, I am the one who was loved more than my brother. I really do not like that, especially now, when I talk to my parents on the phone or msn, and they will tell me "Ur elder brother is so wierd sometimes, he is not like you at all", by which they want to let me know that I am kinda more special. I hate to hear from both sides what kind of conflicts they have in daily life, who and what did. But I cannot tell them not to tell me all that crap as well, because I fell guilty for not getting involved in my Family problems(lil ones, but anyways). All I say them at that moment is that they r cool, I love them and bro/mom actually loves you.
PS. It is a regular family, no abuse and crap. those are small problems like "He left his sock on the coach" or "she did not let me go to party"