I simply asked you to tell the circumstances where a health care professional spoke of religion with you.
As I said in a previous post, I've never had that happen to me, and I added that I live in Texas so you'd see that even in a more religious part of the country this hasn't happened to me. I'm not religious.
I don't know anything about your relationship with Bob, that's why I said "not my monkey, not my circus" That wasn't choosing right or wrong. Whatever is going on between the 2 of you, is between the 2 of you.
So you asked a question in the title of the thread. I asked you to explain.
If you're going to not respond directly to the question, or veer of into the realm of deciding everything about who I am, then I have nothing more to say here.
Don't know why racisim is even brought into this. Has nothing to do with your question. I know nothing about you. Where you live, your ethnic background, socio economic status, where you may have lived over your lifetime. I wouldn't know about that unless I asked, and you answered. You though, seem to know where I have lived over over the course of my life, my politics, my race, my wealth or lack of it, etc.
I'm not going to start picking over nonsense like you and bob are doing. Either talk to me like an intelligent person, or don't.