Farewell Note Interpretation: Women & Guys--> Help Requested

Or - you can just come out and say to her (her, yeah, sure)

So - you wanna do IT, or what?

Nice hair EhBeth! Almost the shade of Lucille Ball--she had some wicked nice hair

Yeah you're right...play it cool. Well, actually we only have one day at work together after today, so I can sweat that.

what the hell, sometimes you just gotta throw it out there.

Like I said, this one is something special--I only meet her kind maybe once a year or so...its worth a shot...it would be a shame not to at least check it out a bit...The reason I keep asking is, as Cpt. Kirk hinted above, this one here is long term relationship material, not just a few weeks dating or whatever...

one just doesn't want to come off like the creep or overeager whatever...

"hey whats up, thanks for the card and email address. yes, I'd like to keep in touch too. Hey, I know moving is hard, if there's anything you need help with, here's my cell number---give me a call."

whaddya think? she's too shy though...this comment might be too unclear and can be taken several ways? . perhaps direct approach might be better.

"You don't want to do it? What do you mean? Hey, don't be giving me a card then....Tease!"

If she thought you were relationship material, extra medium, she'd have made a move a while ago.



<was that too blunt? naaaaaaaah - guys need blunt, and women know it>


CJ - it's Endora :wink:

She's kinda shy though EhBeth. Not that shy though...its a 50-50 call, thats why I asked you experts

You know me huh? Now you're spiting me, you know now that you said that I'll go harder for it? :wink:

I'll be busy on this thread and she'll go home!! :wink:

I made the mistake of going on a 2nd date with this one guy, I'll call him Crazy Looney Man That Was Starting To Scare Me.

I made it an early evening by claiming diarrhea, and nicely told him a third date shouldn't happen, we just didn't have anything in common.

He asked me if I would just care to have sex with him then.

Uh - no CLMTWSTSM.

He told people I had led him on. So don't talk to ME about being a tease. It's a burden.

A year later, while on a date with another guy, I saw him in the mall - yelling at a Godiva Choclate display. Really.

So let me put it another way.

She might have said something this late - precisely to prevent you from attempting to pursue anything.

< aka she wants to stay in touch, but doesn't really want to get to know you. >

OMG, the Witch of Endor is upon us . . .

When I was in university, a sort of demi-beau silk-screened a t-shirt for me.
It said 'beware of the dragon' on the back.

I wonder what he was on about :wink:

Will no one save us ? ! ? ! ?

Where's Saul when ya need him?

damn.

Could you change back to your old avatar? She was much nicer.

What is this new image...is it indeed a sign of black magic?

If I may be so bold and beg in advance for certain ones here for forgiveness: your words doth castrate a man, dear lady.

GO FOR IT
GO FOR IT
GO FOR IT

I'm sticking with this (which was posted by the other avatar)

hmmm....

every see those 60s TV shows with the angel on one shoulder telling you to do one thing, and devil on other side telling you to do the opposite, and they both have good arguements?

thats how I feel here on this thread! Gee thanks! :wink:

Existential after all.

Do I really have to follow Setanta's advice after all and live my life, and make decisions based on what I feel and my experiences, instead of you telling me?

That just doesn't seem right!

I want the computer to spit out the right answer!! What the heck good are computers if they can't help you with this? :wink:

computer says ---- ask her

thanks computer!

I'll insert 50 cents in the slot later...

are you the computer from the Starship Enterprise? That one would talk and give you the nebulous answer....

You may need the change for the bus ride home

Ask her what?

Oh yeah, ask her what the hell she was thinking, giving you her email address just as you're moving 1000 miles away.

Oh yeah. It was so you could keep in touch. After you've moved.

This might help.