WannaBeRoyal, actually that comment about being judgemental was not directed at you. Read the first and second page of this forum and you will see why I wrote that reply. This girl came on here asking for some advice and a few people made a joke of something that could be serious.
All I have to say is that every young individual expects alcohol to be at a party worth going to; therefore, if you're brave enough to attend these parties... where you know under aged drinking is going to take place... you should also know that there will be guys / boys who will take every opportunity to get laid...
I believe this is all Bella Dea is saying, and the original poster, regardless of rape, was irresponsible and needs to understand that.