@kathyporter,
although i am single, i still want to express my opinions
firstly, you can talk to him. having a good conversation is the most effective way to settle a fight. and i think it also can improve your relationship. just spare some time to talk to your husband, expressing your ideas and listening to his feelings and thoughts, trying to cope with this matter collaboratively
besides, do some romantic things for him. for example, give him a bunch of flowers that he likes from time to time. remember to create some surprises in your marriage in order to keep marriage fresh
in addition, in my opinion, if you really like a person, you won't find no time to chat with him and adversely you will try your best to get touch with him. no time is just an excuse. i mean, if you have to work long hours or take flights frequently, you can maintain a day-to-day talk by some electronic devises.