I've not much to give. From your post, I get the feeling he doesn't respect you or your feelings. Personally, that would be a deal breaker for me. Maybe not for you.
Also, you started paying attention to other men, just to give him an idea of how you are feeling. He doesn't seem to have made the connection between his behavior and yours. He may have other qualities, but it does seem like he is a person who only sees things from his own viewpoint.
If I were seeing a woman that fit his description, I would probably be thinking of a nice (relatively) way to cut her adrift. That's only my own likely reaction. It's still your own decision.