Lola: Wait, did Frank leave or was he banned? And why?
As far as my leaning towards the view that there is a God, I formulated this opinion via a four hour conversation with two of my friends, which led me to switch from an atheist to an agnostic. Our train of thought was this:
1) I opened with a conversation about Jung's collective unconscious, and how I had found many similarities between religions separated by geography(i.e., it's unlikely they intermingled). I hypothesized that there must be something connecting all humans together. I had a pseudo-scientific theory that 'God' was really the combined force of all our brains, and not an external entity at all, and was thus not 'God', just the sum of humanity.
2) Then, they got me to acknowledge that since there were so many different views of 'God', that it was better if we just said "higher power", since that was non-specific.
3) Then, through the conundrums of how the universe began, how life on earth began, and the existence of this "collective unconscious", I began to accept that, while science had theories, it didn't really have
answers.
4) Then, we defined both atheism and theism as non-questioners, and that, since I was questioning, I was therefore not an atheist. I developed a hierarchy which (I think) details how someone ascends to an agnostic view, but since I'm sure I'll offend some people by posting it here, I'll abstain for now.
5) Then, we separated my distaste for religion from my distaste of 'god', and acknowledged that they weren't the same at all.
So, at present, I maintain a high distaste for most organized religions, and while I think that the paradoxes outlined in 3) indicate that there is a 'higher being' of some sort, I'm humble enough to admit that I really don't know. If science comes up with an answer, then I'll be an atheist, I guess, since that view will have been proven. Conversely, if the world ends in 2012 and Jesus comes to save the day, then you can count me as a theist.
Until then, I'll just keep hypothesizing.
Hope that answered some questions. Now can someone please explain what happened with Frank? Thanks.