Quote:of our children's science courses.
so c.i. wrote.
This is the ideology."Our children"."My child".Taken for granted.Child as property.As toy.
Here's a quote from a rather more intellectual source than a retired minor judge.(cue joke-what do you call a judge who was bottom of the class in law school-"your honour".)
"For me,not believing in life after death,the child was my idea of immortality,perhaps the only idea that has any real expression.Take that away and you cut off my life".
And another one-
"Have you never felt ridiculous in your role as father?I know nothing so ludicrous as to see a father leading his child by the hand along the street,or to hear him talking about his children.'My wife's children',he should say...My child!A man has no children.It is women who get children,and that's why the future is theirs,while we die childless."
Both quotes from Strindberg.
Both sides are "using" their children to try to give meaning to their lives once they have a meaningless world on their hands which SDers most certainly do.They wish to believe that they still count as doddering old goats.It's boredom relief.Ping-pong with children as the ball.
In Women In Love,and elsewhere,Lawrence explores the same ground as do many others.The ideology here involves the notion that children owe their parents a debt and both sides hold to it.How very convenient eh.Especially for men.They can become a lifetime creditor just by having a shag.And their own flesh and blood is the debtor.What a load of complete bollocks set up to avoid the real truth and justify spending what ought to be the inheritance of the child on self indulgence.It is the parents who owe the child everything.The child didn't ask to be born.It is a lifetime's responsibility once here.
This whole debate is a sham within a parental ideology of selfishness.The children are pawns as is perfectly plain from this thread and from the productions emanating from the court proceedings.
It is bad enough having to put up with parents at home,who are out of date by definition in a fast changing world, without them extending their unlearned and selfish ignorance into the schools.It is just a larger version of Mrs Whitehouse.What do these people know of life in 2040 which is when these children are becoming effective and when happiness will be even more elusive than it is now.
A child is an individual human being.What have these parents read or studied relating to what is best for their children.Their position in relation to other people's children is even more execrable.We have a system of expertise which we live or die by.Do we not trust it.At least they have studied the problem in great detail.
Parents in education!What a catastrophe.c.i. with his "our children" bullshit and not a dry eye in the room as he lards it up.
And Dover will contain a fair number of parents who agree with me but you won't be hearing from them because the fuss is the thing.What use are people who don't make a fuss to a media hungry for news to satisfy an audience ravenous for distractions.
"As the white line on the highway sails under your wheels,
I've gazed from the trailer window laughing.
Oh,our clothes they was torn but the colours they was bright.
Following them dusty old fairgrounds a-calling."
Dusty Old Fairgrounds-Bob Dylan.(1973)
Check that out.