@Leadfoot,
izzythepush wrote:I'm not a child, adults accept limits
Leadfoot wrote:Some more than others.
That's funny! And it went completely over his head.
@izzythepush, who says?
I don't accept limits. I don't define being an adult as putting a muzzle on myself and letting someone muffle my speech, or letting someone bridle ne and control me like a horse. The reason I am unemployed now is is that I refused to have the last boss run my life, so I quit and became self-employed. But then COVID hit, and I saw the prospect of running things myself increasingly more difficult, got discouraged and lost enthusiasm. I could probably pick it up again.
The only real limits there are, are limits you impose on yourself. Soreness, fatigue, even illness, you can work through these as long as you have decent rest afterwards. But if you accept someone else's discipline in your life, you're not an adult, you're a slave (regardless of pay).
Lemme give you little secret I've learned from self-employment. It doesn't seem like it's a matter of advertising after a certain point. I put my flyers evrrywhere, tried the newspaper, did a farmer's market. Stopped adverising when it made me exhausted to drive around. I usually get calls (like yesterday) when I'm thinking I might need more money. It's a subconscious thing, I can't really ask for it, but usually people call out of the blue. Unfortunately, I can't help most of them because I'm not trained to repair hardware, or glass, or issues where the computer won't start period. I'm mainly a computer tutor, which there isn't the same market for. I've fixed alot of issues, but mainly for the same two people and one retired and moved away (not dealing with that well, cuz the other regular is far less regular). Likewise, when I was depressed working for the library, the boss kept cutting my hours (a bit of a vicious cycle). The point being that although it seemed like the boss was in control, I was the one determining whether I had more or less hours through my attitude and performance.
You're following a kid's definition of adulthood. A kid looks at adults and sees most of them as useless oafs, and thinks they have to follow the same pattern. You only do if you allow yourself to be enslaved. You don't need to do anyone's model for your life but your own. The Christians paradoxically talk about accepting God's autho in their life. But from my experience that's limit talking. The God that I know of is at odds with the world's "freedom" but rather shows you a path of self-discipline. For example, while you are certainly free to use drugs, you will become an addict. "I can do anything, but I will not be ruled by anything." The secular world has told you there are limits, and you think that's so. And then they blame these limits on the church, who never defends itse or sets people straight.
Who says?