I mean clothes.
"there is no point in dressing her to please other people. when she looks down, i want her to see the graphic patterns" blah blah blah yadda yadda yadda - they can be a bit militant on the issue
one of them relented when i had a tiny bit of a fit, and agreed to let me knit a baby afghan in dark forest green and palest yellow
i am QUITE ready for this group of friends to finish having babies. their showers aren't really fun.