Sorry perhaps I haven't expressed myself well.
I would like him to be with me whilst I'm doing my chores.. I mean if he really wants to be with me then I wouldn't turn him away.
However I'd rather like him to meet me certainly when we can both enjoy being together and have some nice together. And this can't happen if one of us is busy with the house work I think.
Thank you for your advices, you not harsh at all.
I'm sorry for your marriage, it must have been very hard time for you!!:-(