Hmm thats possible. Ill try to answer each paragraph you wrote:
We do lots and lots of eating out, dinner, icecream, etc. We go out for daytrips to small towns for walks and shop in the little stores. Movies, hiking . Were about to leave for a nice 2 day trip to the beach and check out all the stuff surrounding it. We both enjoy these things too, its not just one. We go on lots of date days, date nights. These are things she has expressed interest in and we have done lots of times. Like I say, we have done a lot and spent a lot of time (and money) together. Any more and I will be broke.
She says she is looking for a committed relationship. Her dream is the simple life with a dog, small house, some kids etc. Typical stuff, Im all about that. Maybe I need to ask her what she wants out of a relationship specifically??
It could be the way Im expressing it. Thats possible, I admit. If it is, I would like to know how to change how I am expressing it. I am really telling her things that would in different ways say "hey! you are like my other half. I dont want any other woman on the face of the planet." Maybe I need help expressing it better, rather than just spending money. Could be my problem? Thanks ehbeth