After sex with ex

"Hi, ___. Do you want to do FWB, or what?"

And then you'll know.

It's cool. But I cant explain y she acts one way then it's the opposite

What “games” are you talking about?

Agree about what this relationship is, but be sure to state what you expect or want from all this.

Do you desire exclusive? FWB? Casual sex only?

That sounds like a love/hate thing. Some of her emotions draw her too you, but then other emotions push her away from you.

In a nutshell, she wants you to be something you are not. That's what it will be.

In the meantime she keeps coming back and checking to make sure!