My daughter is addicted with KPop

many teens love KPop and is good clean fun. you are lucky she not into drugs and western bad boys. this is ridiculous parenting

Buy her good headphones and get a pair for yourself while you're at it.

It's not easy to learn an Asian language when you're an English speaker, as the alphabet is very different. We see the same thing in reverse here.

So you're right - learning a foreign language would be a great idea. And this is a difficult one which would stretch her. If she learns it, awesome. If she tries hard and doesn't, then developing good study habits is a win, yes?

And hang in there. Teenagers, girls in particular, have been addicted to boy and girl bands and young man and woman singers since Elvis, Sinatra, the Dixie Cups, and the DeFranco Family (am I the only person on this site who remembers them?).

How about meeting her halfway and introducing her to the bands you liked when you were her age? But you have to trade that for listening at least a little (and without judgment) to what she likes. So for every ABC by the Jackson Five, you trade that for a song by BTS.

And I leave you with a little ditty by a boy band.

Perhaps you can work on learning English while she works on her Korean. Then you can sing along with English-language songs while she sings along with her K-Pop.

Really. There's really much to admire about her desire to learn a new language in her late teens. Good parenting would be encouraging her.

It's also the future.

Never mind if you carry on like this you won't have to listen to it much longer. My father was also hypercritical of everything I did/liked. The minute I was able to leave home I was gone. We still see each other, but I keep my visits brief with nice long gaps in between.

Why would you make this weird assumption?

Love her unconditionally. Be patient with her. She'll likely be out of your hair in a year or two.

Just appreciate that if this is your daughter's worst cultural failings? You probably did a decent job raising her.

Perhaps you have some personal soft racism issues to address that have nothing to do with what your daughter is obsessing over currently?

Hi everyone. I am very much glad with your responses. i am quite enlightened on what I should do and how I should the situation at hand. i guess you are right. instead of being annoyed, I should be supporting her on what she likes as long as it does not affect her negatively. Indeed, i am glad that she is trying to learn a foreign language and I should be supporting her for that.