@revelette3,
It is quite true, along with many, many others. The only thing that can be said in his, and a lot of the others behave is it was the times. And, to my knowledge, he didn't go out at midnight in white sheets.
I'm from the south going back to the 1600's and we have learned to live with the sudden realizations. Some of us file it as the past, some (unfortunately - too many) still live with it.
Don't let it interfere with your love; however, I can never view them the same again.