Re: hmm
nappy wrote:Well,
I have never gotten my girl to orgasm
ty
Learn to open the front door before trying to go thru the back.
If she thinks going down on her is weird, then I honestly don't think she'll let you in the back door ;-)
Ok, and I wouldn't know anything about anal sex since I never tried it and never will. That's strictly a one way street.
VERY true pan... VERY TRUE
> puts on nurse hat<
Ok, there are other risks of anal sex too..
First off, the rectum wall is very thin. You CAN rupture it. So dont think you can have freaky pounding monkey sex from the rear. You can damage your girlfriend for life. Trust me.. .it isnt a pretty sight when it happens.
Careful, slow easy movements are best . ALWAYS...ALWAYS... lube up! More then you think is necessary! More lube, easier sex. If you are serious about trying this and your g/f is ok with this, take it slow. Dont just say.. Ok, roll over. The muscles of the rectum are mostly ( about 40%) involuntary. So you have to 'work them' open. Condoms are the safest when having anal sex. That way, if you two change your minds, you can just take off the condom, wipe yourself off, and have safe re-entry into the vagina. When having anal sex, remember to aim for the belly button.. Straight in and out anal sex will rupture the mucus membranes of the rectum.. The rectum isnt a straight line, you shouldnt enter in a straight line.
I have alot of other detailed information if you would like. But.. to keep myself from being banned with the details.. I will stop. hehe. ;-)
You can Pm me if you would like.
I used to have a little country sign that read "Backdoor Guests Are Best." Then Bear told me why all his friends snickered as they came in the door.
Try finding her one of those signs. It'll be a very subtle introduction.
very.....VERY good point Duce
Thanks shewolf. There's always room for good information on these threads.
duce wrote:
PLEASE Come back and tell me what's wrong with my car.
Who you imploring you big banty rooster?
Re: hmm
nappy wrote:Well,
I have never trierd anal sex but it does intrigue me.
I have never gotten my girl to orgasm and I just read in a previous post that some people can get an orgasm through anal.
How does that work? What do you stimulate in the female when entering from the rear?
ty
That's not that hard but it takes experience to really get an orgasm from rear entry penetration. Your girl has to be into it, otherwise it will be a waste of time. In case you do it don't forget to take care of her clit while you're doing her anal, this will loosen her up and she will definitely enjoy
panzade wrote:One thing i will warn you about because it is very important and I learned the hard way. There is a very real danger of a massive urinary tract infection for your girl if you switch back and forth. So be careful.
Plus, whenever you guys do it go ahead and use a condom no matter who you're doing it with. Chances of an infection are high for men too.
Montana wrote:Ok, and I wouldn't know anything about anal sex since I never tried it and never will. That's strictly a one way street.
That's for you Montana, 'cause believe me, there are girls who are totally into it.
shewolfnm wrote:VERY true pan... VERY TRUE
> puts on nurse hat<
Ok, there are other risks of anal sex too..
First off, the rectum wall is very thin. You CAN rupture it. So dont think you can have freaky pounding monkey sex from the rear. You can damage your girlfriend for life. Trust me.. .it isnt a pretty sight when it happens.
Careful, slow easy movements are best . ALWAYS...ALWAYS... lube up! More then you think is necessary! More lube, easier sex. If you are serious about trying this and your g/f is ok with this, take it slow. Dont just say.. Ok, roll over. The muscles of the rectum are mostly ( about 40%) involuntary. So you have to 'work them' open. Condoms are the safest when having anal sex. That way, if you two change your minds, you can just take off the condom, wipe yourself off, and have safe re-entry into the vagina. When having anal sex, remember to aim for the belly button.. Straight in and out anal sex will rupture the mucus membranes of the rectum.. The rectum isnt a straight line, you shouldnt enter in a straight line.
I have alot of other detailed information if you would like. But.. to keep myself from being banned with the details.. I will stop. hehe. ;-)
You can Pm me if you would like.
That's good info shewolfnm particularly the aiming for the belly button. Didn't know that. However I haven't had many problems regarding anal. Girls I've been with have told me I'm gentle enough. I'd like you to share more details regarding this topic, you seem to be a very informed girl and I could learn something. I'd really appreciate if you could pm me -I can't pm you since the admin has not given me permission to do it, even after being a member for a while- with the info you have other than the basic issues that have been already discussed. Thanks
Nappy -Just buy her a vibrator, works for every woman I know. Forget the anal - it hurts.
panzade wrote:I know sweetie...but it's important to bring up the hazards
Speaking of hazzards....
L-U-B-R-I-C-A-T-I-O-N
Lots and lots and lots and lots....you don't want her bum bleeding.
Green Witch wrote:Nappy -Just buy her a vibrator, works for every woman I know. Forget the anal - it hurts.
Not for everyone. Depends on his size, your relaxation and how much lube you use. Some women I know find it amazing. Some find a finger in there pretty spectacular.
Perhaps you could try that Nappy.....ease into the anal. While manually stimulating her, get some lube and gently (GENTLY now.....) work one finger into her anus. Don't shove it up. Go maybe an inch. You can work farther up but like Shewolf said, the muscles are mostly involuntary. The first (now don't you all laugh....) sphincter is voluntary. The second, about 2 inches (?) up is involuntary. That is the one you come into resistance with and the one that HURTS if forced.
I'm with you on this one Belleza. I don't really know why do some women find this anal thing so unacceptable without even try. I have sporken or being with many women who say that anal is fantastic if the man knows how to do it. And I really have come to understand that for a woman that has never tried it there's a rule, plain and simple: 1 finger comes in first, then 2 fingers come in second, and then, after she's comfortable, you go ahead and use your big boy with lots of lube and lots of gentleness. Maybe that's an exit only hole, as some have claimed, but you girls can teach it to be a very pleasurable entry hole. Just give it a try, you girls can find and outstanding experience that drive us guys crazy...
I'm with you on this one Belleza. I don't really know why do some women find this anal thing so unacceptable without even try. I have sporken or being with many women who say that anal is fantastic if the man knows how to do it. And I really have come to understand that for a woman that has never tried it there's a rule, plain and simple: 1 finger comes in first, then 2 fingers come in second, and then, after she's comfortable, you go ahead and use your big boy with lots of lube and lots of gentleness. Maybe that's an exit only hole, as some have claimed, but you girls can teach it to be a very pleasurable entry hole. Just give it a try, you girls can find and outstanding experience that drive us guys crazy...
How about using your hands to stimulate her clitoris while making love
